approached a chick at the mall. had decent convo, she showed some good IOIS like she kept coming and talking to me everychance she had and it wasnt about work (she was working in the store i approached her) while i was in there so she would have to work the register but only went there n came straight back to me every time. left to do some other bizness i had n smas shopping (the reason i was in the mall) came back to the store cuz i was gunna buy some sneakers. she came up to me instant i walked in and i said im here for 2 things. "1 i think your a cutie, and 2 to get your number" got her number told her i was in a hurry but id shoot her a txt sometime.

hit her up a few hours later with a witty text. had great txt convo DHV'd like a muther fucker. ended the txt convo first before she could.
her reply times were sparatic at first but once we started really pinging back n forth i dhvd pretty good (im a DJ, slang paintings that i paint make jewelry yada yada make and sell clothes (all outta my house, i have no "real" job but i live more then comfortably) and btw that sounds douchy i know but thats not how it was said when i was talking to her just dhv in stories and stuff not bragging whatsoever. jus fyi so yal dnt think i was bragging to her n shit....

ended the text late that night(same night i got her #)

next day nighttimeish called her, no answer so left message whadup girly need ur opinion on sumthin hit me back wen ya get a chance. somethin along those lines....


that was yesterday. havent got a text or call frm her still.

im wondering what you guys think my next move should b. i dont wanna come off as needy so im debating what to do...
should i shoot her a witty txt n see if she replys n that she just didnt want to talk on phone? idk
i wanna work this one right shes a cool chick and id like to see it through the right way. thanks guys

and btw i feel the initial contact i didnt get as good a connection as id like. but hey im out here doing this and trying to learn. expesially from my mistakes

advice appreciated pimps!!

DO NOTHING! at least for a couple of days, she may be busy, she may have been hit by a truck and is in hospital, she may be testing you. leave it a couple of days, then send her an intriguing one line text like "oh my god, I just had the most awesome day!"

She will most likely reply asking "why?". Then make up some DHV bullshit and take it from there.

thanks appreciate the words... well i didnt get a reply until the next day so i did nothin.
i also kimda feel that i didnt build a real stong initial interest before i got the number.... but like i said txting was good. i think i might txt her the wattup gangtsa how the thug life goin? or somethin...

any other opinions would be much appreciate bro

I just made a thread about a guy who kept texting after she didn't respond the first time, and the girl basically said he was coming across as stalkerish and needy and she isn't going to keep talking to him.

You don't ever call or text her again and ask why she didn't respond to your first text/call. If you feel compelled to text or call her before she has gotten back to you the first time, just make it seem like you have something new to say and don't call attention to the fact that you know she has ignored your first contact.

You also need to keep in mind that you n-closed a "hired gun". I guarantee you that she gets several men every week trying to n-close her and hit on her. That's 3 men per week, 12 per month. You now have like an 8% chance that you'll be the guy she chooses to date that month. Even if she dates 3 guys she met at work that month, that's still only 1 in 4 odds of it being you. If you look at it that way, it's an odds game, and the odds are not in your favor.

Stay away from the hired guns and game other girls.

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