Hi my user name is yabers. Real name is Josh. I 24, have a pretty solid build and I'm quite muscly, 6'5 and 250 pounds. My main problem is that I never seem to be able to convert. I can get kisses from girls in clubs but they never put out when I get them back. The last one I got back I actually liked. I got her number. I tried it on but she refused but she seemed cool and I got her number when I dropped her off at the tiube station. I sent her a text asking how she was and she replied thenext day, so I don't think she really was that into me or was put off in the morning after.

I really like her and we had quite a lot in common. It's been 5 days since she text and I didn't text her back. What should I say text her? I really do fancy her, she isn't a one-itis by any shout but I want to give it a go. What should I text her?

Hi yabers. I'm a new to the forum as well. I think more people would take a look at your situation if you moved it to another section. And if it were me, and it had been 5 days, I would re-open.

You said you the two of you had a lot in common. Find something that reminds you of her and tell her it made you think of that night.

that's just me

thanks for the resnse mate. I'm really bad ith stuff like this. I have noi idea what to say. We were similar in our principles not actual tastes.She's into photography and stuff like that. It was kind of akward when we last saw each other. What section should I move this too?

Again thanks for the help

Maybe Approaching and Opening. I always read the forum rules of every section/sub forum as soon as I become a member of any site. Read about cold opening or re-opening with what you already know. If she's really into potography. Something about nikon vs canon, or about "and stuff". Btw what's "principles not actual tastes"?

And don't think about how it was akward last time. If it wasn't super akward she wont remember it ever happend after 2 text as long as you don't remind her of the akwardness with the 2 texts.haha

That's my take on it. You're best off reading all the really good stuff in Approaching and Opening

Thank you for the informative post.

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Dubli