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Mr. PeasAnt.
You have to know more about the culture we live in.
We live in a dying society, a falling empire. As a result, our civilization in collapse is full of narcissism, opportunism, fear of commitment and fear of attachment. It is a superficial romance novel culture, with hyped up expectations of romance by Hollywood feelgood teenage comedies.
All this shit makes women very shallow, flaky, fussy, fickle and frigid creatures.
Therefore, if they refuse to be picked up, it can be a sign that you are in fact a thoughtful, self-disciplined, knowledgeable individual.
However this is not necessarily the case. Sometimes the problem that one fails at picking up girls is just that you are ruled by your own inertia. People who endlessly dream about things, yet never put them in action.
Once you gain a proper understanding of our dying age - and this is really the most important thing - you will learn to view the women that this culture spawns for what they truly are. As a result you will be less doubtful about yourself, less insecure. However this requires you to travel the path to greater knowledge, and this starts by reading important books. Not just PUA books, but books about the rise and fall of civilization. For example Plato's Republic.
Remember, most women nowadays wouldn't be able to recognize a real man when they see one, too busy they are with constantly whining and moaning how their life is a mess, complaining about how they have no direction to organize their future. And at the same time they consider themselves perfectly capable at deciding what is good for them, and what is not, and they consider themselves very hot, even if they hide this behind a smokescreen of feigned insecurity.
If you want to be a PUA, you have to be ready and able to deal with all of this and understand it thoroughly. Not for the faint of heart.
Well in israel this society is not dead at all, and even if you dont see it in real life then you can watch it over the internet like right now.
I do not want to become a PUA because i innocently like it and just wanna fit in this "secret" culture but because i came into a conclusion that i do need help in this issue of mine and learning and understanding pick up might give me the right solution to my problem.
Im a person who is (unfortunately) not the most social person in the world, yes, i do have social problems and i do believe pick will give me the answer.
Other people might not see this on me but pick up is a life-changer for me and i do understand all the "obstacles" that might stand in my way, let me tell you this, im not going to give up on pick up just because some wemen cant recognize a real man, as o see it, its the man who needs to enlight the women of who he is (of course in a pick upish way), but im not one to talk im just starting to learn about this.
Besides who said wemen are shallow?flaky?unvalued? Sorry for telling this to you but this is total bull#$@%.
It depends on the society they live in and the education they get from their pparents and many more parameters that sculpt a person's personality, i even met wemen with really high values that were really mentally "qualitative" and not shallow as you say.
I truly thank you for notifying me about needing more knowledge (clearly i cant go on blindfold) yet even if i have the knowledge my more critical problem is self confidence, not a million nor the most detailed book will help me raise my confidence i have to go to the field and try out some drills (would really help me if you give me some drills about self confidence)
Thanks in advance.
CHAT
