here's from OKC the last few days but i've been opening with lame stuff like "you seem cool" or "you're a cute asian" or "you seem fun" then "we should hang" after.. kind of boring. A couple of them messages me 1st
I have an online game thread in lounge talking about what has worked for me and what hasn't,.. i have around 6 or 7 lays since early summer of this year strictly from OKC/POF... i have a couple through facebook.
I have a few pages of returned messages on OKC but only a few of them turn into lays. It takes persistence. I mean a lot will even give me their number, I text, and it fizzles out (she keeps making excuses, etc). Similar on POF, I used to have like 8 pages of returned messages but POF deletes the messages after 30 days or something
-it helps a lot to be good looking
-make your profile short and sweet
-only send 2-3 messages before asking for her number to text (big investment)
-maybe text her a pic, ask her to send you one for your contacts list
-meet up
-sex
