I've been using day game for over 3 years now, to meet and have sex with women.

The #1 thing I've learned is the seven day rule.

THE 7 DAY RULE
Regardless of whether you meet a new woman online or not, you must arrange to meet up with her within 7 days or less and hook up with her (either have sex or making out). If she isn’t willing to meet up with you within the first 7 days of meeting you and gives you excuses like…

- “My life is really busy right now”
- “Maybe next week or something”
- “Sorry but I have this important project to work on”

She isn’t really interested in you a.k.a. “I’m not sexually attracted” to you. Not to worry, simply let her go and focus on meeting a hottie who wants you to rock her world.

99.9% of all the women I met, seduced and had sex with happened within the first 7 days of meeting them. If a new girl ever says to you something like:

“Hey, I really busy right now with school/work but maybe we can meet next week or something?”

That’s code for: I’m not sexually attracted to you but I want to be nice and not come off
looking like a bitch…so I hope you’ll get the hint.

Always remember the 7 day rule.

- Drummer.boy

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What about girls that just try to be your friend first and see where it leads later? I used to be hellbent on getting pussy the night I meet a girl, but then I realized that those girls are all the nut cases that I don't want to know (since I don't want to catch anything). Most girls expect guys to be all over them, because most if not all want something from them. Am I right or am I wrong?

Life is not so black and white Drummer.
A girl I met a few years back was actually busy after I met her with family issues and work blah blah blah.
I chatted with her on facebook. We mostly talked about her problems and she complained and whined and I listened. She said I was a really caring friend. I never offered advice, figured she just wanted an ear to hear, and well I'm a caring fucking person.

Roughly a month later things seemed to simmer down for her. She asked if I wanted to hang out and we did. I was fucking the shit out of her at her place.

granted there were a few guidelines I tried to abide by. When she said she was busy I never asked her to hang out again afterwards and instead figured if she wanted to hang out she'd ask me. Asking her would just put pressure on her already busy pressure filled life.

I never gave advice or tried to get her to do shit that ultimately benefited me. I was seriously acting on of true caring compassion.

I didn't really care if I hung out with her either. I wasn't talking to any other girls at the time. I just wasn't so pressed on having to have sex. Wasn't really thinkin' of it. I met other chicks during that time, but mostly girls I befriended [roughly 10 during a month long period. Of those 10 I had sex with 3 during a span of 5 months and that was fine by me. I made new friends and got laid a few times].


I'm just saying, if a girl says she's busy sometimes she's actually busy. Life isn't so black and white, treating statements like this as if they are black in white tends to be very damaging to social relationships and is often the reason why people outside of the PUA community think we're all a bunch of assholes and sociopathic scumbags amongst other negative associations with PU.

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Hey Chime,

I do agree with you that life is not black and white...and there are exceptions to every rule, especially my 7 day rule.

I'll be the first to admit that (because of my 7 day rule) I've probably missed a few opportunities with girls who really were "busy" with life and other things. However, my rule helps me from getting fooled, played around and hurt by flaky chicks.

I did enjoy reading your example about the girl you met a few years back (she said she was busying, blah,blah) but you played the whole thing cool. You didn't push for or suggest another date...you went with the flow, let her come to you and got freaky. This show you have "sick" game with women. Respect.

- Drummer.boy

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I was just being me and being nice.

Your rule isn't something to be thrown out the window at all...
I feel a guy should take this from what you said: if a girl says she's busy just play it cool and act as if she's really busy. Don't push meeting her and so on [my way]. However don't assume she's actually busy or that she's that big of a deal either [your way]. Play it cool with the girl and talk to other girls [our way]. But don't throw this in her face that you're talking to other girls and don't talk to other girls for the soul purpose of getting over her [the wrong way]. It doesn't matter if you're banging other chicks or not as long as you're playing it cool. It doesn't matter if she fucks you or not. You learned how to be happy and not worry about making a big deal about shit.

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I personally don't like rules...as long as you have a life going on other than being a PUA, and working several girls at the same time; you will come off as busy and confident. You will be a well balance guy "Alpha Male"!

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I seriously don't do shit most of the time aside from go out and meet girls.
That alpha male shit is bs also. The nerdiest most "beta" guy I know, who's homeless and jobless, has little trouble with girls. I notice he doesn't make a big deal about anything when he talks to them and when Alpha jackasses have to take control he doesn't seem to care and they still don't get the girl while he does.

I've pulled girls without being "alpha" as well. Sure, being dominant and all that jazz will attract some types of women and maybe even a lot of women, however it's not mandatory. Like how money, cars, nice clothes, and good looks aren't mandatory.

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I really think it depends on the person. I was trying to be all alpha male bold, but it seemed to get me nowhere. I notice that if I chill....talk to girls normally rather than try and get in their pants a lot of pressure was off and I focused on their personality. I was focused on one night stands and just realized they're not as fun as they used to be.