| I typed this out when I was first starting up in the community. It helped me to have it all written out. Feel free to let me know what I left out or what needs to be changed. Enjoy.
Legacy
M3
Bounce - To move the target to an entirely new location. C1 moving to C2 and on to C3. C2 can consist of many dates.
Move - To move the target to another area of the location currently in. A3 moving to C1.
FIND - Find Your Target
A1 and A2
It's important to know that during this time you are showing absolutely NO interest in the target. Most of the time the only attention the Target gets within these stages are negs.
A1 - Open
The man approaches a set over his shoulder to no show interest/neediness or that he's attempting to gain rapport. He gives an indirect opener so the set will not feel threatened by his presence. He comes across as he is just about to leave. He gives a time constraint and possibly uses "body rocking". He negs the target to show active disintrest. This will intrigue her, shut down her protection shield, and also make her friends less protective of her because they ALL think you're not hitting on her. He then DHV's (Demonstrates Higher Value) to the set and crosses the "Social Hook Point". The point where the set would rather have you stay then leave.
A2 - Female-To-Male Interest
This is the stage where you make HER attracted to YOU. The man demonstrates higher value, while simultaneously showing disinterest in the target by negging. Make sure you "lock her in" with a prop of some kind so she does not wander off. She responds by giving IOIs, or indicators of interest. So you continue to convey your personality using stories, humor, patterns, games, routines, palm reading, poetry, etc. This combined with his apparent disinterest in the target, raises his social value relative to hers and intensifies her emotional state. She begins to give him IOIs. This is where you begin to kino-escalate. But while doing escalation it's important to use the "push/pull" theory. This will make her MORE uncomfortable with losing your touch then she felt when she actually had it. Also it gives her time to become comfortable to it. You can use kino tests, ie the trust test, to get your target's IOIs. The cube works wonders here but also is a good tool to use in C1.
A3 and C1
He uses this to bait her into chasing after him to earn his affections. As she becomes more invested in the interaction, he rewards her with IOIs. Then he moves her to a quiet area of the bar to begin comfort building. A3 and the beginning of C1 has to do with the "bait, hook, reel, release" theory. Example shown below.
PUA: "Hey, what nationality are you?" (Bait)
HB: "I'm French." (Hook)
PUA: "OMG! Your french? I love that!" (Reel)
PUA: "I dated a french girl. I'm not sure if I can even talk to you now." *Then turn away from your target with your back to her and show her a little negative body language. (Release)
A3 - Male-To-Female Interest
It's important in this step to ask the question, "So how do you all know each other?" to find possible relationships within the circle. In this stage the man baits the woman to become more invested in the interaction, and then he rewards her efforts with IOIs. He is showing her that he has a reason to be attracted to her. If she is complying "move" her to a quieter location. If your at a coffee shop then of course, the "move" is unessecary. Kino escalate!
C1 - Conversation
(During rapport building, be nice. Negs to a minimum. You're being nice now. Do not go backwards in the sarge. If she tries to ball bust you simply withdraw attention and show that you will NOT go backwards.)
The couple begins a conversation and grows from a sense of comfort and rapport into a feeling of connection. Turn C&F down and show her a little part of your world. Continue kino escalation.
C2 and C3
With a bounce to Mel's Diner and a time bridge for sushi the next day, he builds comfort, connection, and trust over a cumulative seven hour period. At some point early during this phase they will begin kissing. They eventually "bounce" to his apartment. GROUNDING occurs somewhre within these stages.
C2 - Connection
Both parties feel a vibe that "it is on." They are "vibing." Kissing occurs. This phase may last over the course of several dates. During kissing you WILL release the kiss and say "You know what, I'm really attracted to you. We should slow down. Come on let's go rejoin our friends."
C3 - Intamacy
Now at a seduction location, heavy making-out ensues and the couple moves into the bedroom for S1. The C3 location is near the seduction location. ie the living room so you can move to the bedroom.
S1, S2, and S3
Finally, he moves her into his bedroom, begins foreplay, overcomes any last-minute resistance, and has sex with her.
S1 - Foreplay
The couple begins the physical escalation towards sex. If this happens to soon it can cause buyer's remorse.
S2 - LMR
Last-Minute Resistance. This is the point of no return before sex occurs. It's often a freak-out moment for the woman.
S3 - Sex
Sexual intercourse. It is necessary to do this several times in order to begin the sexual relationship.
Credit all to Mystery Method
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