So my ex g/f of 3.5 years broke up with me last June. I was head over heals for this girl and we were discussing getting engaged prior to us breaking up. She literally broke up with me out of nowhere, claiming she needed some time to be herself and think about things whatever the fuck that means. After some initial calls like "WTF r u serious" because we both moved to a new city together and our relationship up until this was probably the strongest it ever was. So I gave her space and after the first month i started sending her occasional ping texts.

I have not heard from her in since August, and have not attempted to contact her since September. When she ignored me so i said fuck her and didn't try to contact her again. It took me a long time to get over this chick but have since been dating and hooking up with other girls.

Yesterday she randomly texted me "hey, how have you been," should I even bother responding? I always thought we'd be friends if we broke up but i don't think i'm completely over her. Honestly deep down I could still see myself getting back together.

I would take my time before answering her text back! Let her miss you a little bit, but keep going out with other girls. The best cure to get over a girl and to act none need is to have many options! Take your time and act casual, none needy and aloof! Let her win you over, and do the work, if she is not willing to do the work to win you over..then she is not worth your time and just move on!

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This part means somebody else was stuffing their dick in her.
This means that the somebody still was..... But would occasionally ping back to save face and from looking like a completely slutty hideous cunt.
This part is awesome and should by all means continue!
This part means he dumped her ass, and quit returning HER calls and messages. And she is counting on you to be option #2 ...2nd place. And now would like some dick please.

I would simply reply; "Great, my options are far exceeding my expectations."

Now you! Do you want to fuck her again? Because that's about all your going to typically get out of it.

And you likely easily can.

Let me remind you again.

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