So a couple of months ago i was flirting with a girl,
she tells me she really likes me, we touch a lot, get a lot of kino going,
like 5 mins before i was pretty sure i'd kiss-close,
her friends tell her they're leaving to another party,
she tells me she'll see me again later the same night at that other party (i was going too), so the kiss close never happened.
I never got there, haven't spoken to her a lot in the mean time, we briefly met a couple of times at parties
but never too long, when we did however she was touching me a lot, asked me to stay longer, asked me if i remembered that first night...

So last week we met again at such a party, she was with a lot of friends, talked again, were pretty touchy.
But both of us knew a lot of people there so never really talked long to each other again.
We both went home separately, but outside the party i saw her waiting for a bus, went up to her and kissed her.
After that kiss, she asked; why did you do that for?
I was kinda confused cause i thought the touching and stuff was kind of a good sign :p.
I kissed her mainly because i heard from a lot of people kissing in itself is attractive, but now i'm wondering if i should have built more rapport the night itself or if i should have waited longer?

Anyway, i asked her for a date on facebook the next time (something like, we never really talked for long and in a total sober condition, let's go out sometime?), she responded she doesn't have time this week which can very well be true cause we're starting exams in a bit.

Any insights in why she didn't respond to the kiss, if i played it right by kissing her or if i should have waited/built more response?
And any advice on what to do next? (planning on playing it a bit cool and seeing if anything happens after exams)

Thx

I could actually use some help/ thoughts on this,
so feel free to add anything o.o

Yea, her saying "What did you kiss me for?" is a huge iod. You had the right idea, waited to isolate her, then went for the k-close. But the problem there was that you weren't waiting for the bus with her and continuing to build rapport and attraction. You just walked up to her and planted one on her, and she was probably not expecting that and it came across as a little forced and creepy.

I think you need to re-establish some rapport/trust and work on building more attraction before going for the kiss or anything more.

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Yea, i guess so.

I also kinda did it because the initial flirting happened like a couple of months ago and i thought by kissing her i could kinda reignite a spark, or at least let her know i'm still interested. But i guess i should've waited for a better moment.
But you think this kiss will have her thinking about me at least?

You have to read the IOI's that girls send you..if she is looking at you with bedroom eyes, touches you and gets close...they go for it. The way I do it...is to kiss her in the cheek...and since she didn't back away or move her cheek..then I go for the kiss in the mouth...I hold her head and kiss her. When she kiss me back I then grab her hair and pull her closer to me!

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Aight, thx, i'll try that next time