I just wrote down and verbalized this mindset/frame of reality that will help anyone's Inner Game:

Women and girls who dress to accentuate their attractive features and sexuality are doing so to say "pick me! pick me!" These signals are cute signs of insecurity that demonstrate a lack of confidence in terms of their ability to be attractive to men without the crutch of physical appeal. Therefore, it makes no sense to put women on a pedestal of beauty, seeing them as goddesses.

Rock on guys

Hmmm interesting points. I never thought about it that way before Chief.

How about girls that dress like prudes? Like with baggy clothes or in layers, when you KNOW they have killer bodies?

_________________
afc-challenge-to-the-masters-social-anx ... 10108.html

hmm, cant say I agree dude, a woman with confidence about her bod/features will often dress to show off those features. The insecure ones cover up.

But hey, if this notion works for you or others go for it.

They aren't trying to show off their physical beauty to the world so much so they don't expect any men to respond like helpless sick puppies with loose jaws...even though some AFCs still do

Yeah I don't really know how to answer your question other than to just "be chyll" no matter what they are wearing.
yeah, that's just as true, depending on the frame of reality you are seeing the situation from. the beauty is that you have a choice as to which frame you want to adopt in regards to what works best for you, as long as you aren't completely deluding yourself.