I once again come here with my problems, as I have no other place to go
Me and my girlfriend have this problem for a while, and I kept hoping it would go away by itself, but nothing changed for a few months, and it's getting frustrating

She always complains sex is bad for her as it always hurts her.Whenever I stick it all the way, i hurts her like hell and almost instinctively pulls back.She says it's always painful and only feels a little pleasure
The only thing I can think of is that her vaginal canal is too small and I hit her back wall which makes it hurt

There's also a psychological aspect, as her parents made her think sex is a bad thing that only sluts do.So now she has this in her head, and always feels guilty after we do it, although I keep trying to get this out of her head

She told me she can't be in the moment.She thinks of anything else except that she's with me having sex.What can I do to make her feel more relaxed and take her mind of anything else?

Any opinion on how to make sex more pleasurable for her?I tried countless positions to try to only hit her G spot, but she still says it's only just a little pleasurable.
What can I do, as it seems I'm always forcing her into having sex since it's a bad experience for her

I know a guy who had the same problem with his fiancee. After trying to fix this for many years, they eventually broke up. Now he has a different girl that he is happier with.

If you did everything within your power to change this girl's ideas about sex, and you still could not, then it is a lost cause. If her vagina is really too shallow maybe the only thing you can do is try to have her in a different way... But if she thinks this negative way about sex this will also be a no go for her.

The alternative is to use hookers for your own satisfaction depending on how much resources you have available. But if your kick is to have HER enjoy the sex, well you probably tried everything already, from the smooth and subtle language of seduction to banging her from every position.

while it could be a psychological aspect, there is also a medical condition (dyspareunia) that affects women, something to do with spasms of the vaginal muscles.

get her to see a doctor

The physical pain is unrelated to her psychological hangups. So those are two separate issues.

You want to make sure you are using lubricant if she is in pain. I don't know your size, but if you are above average size then you may not be able to go all the way in. You don't always have to bottom out on her, you can hold back and still have it be pleasurable for you.

As far as her mental issues, that may be too much for you to overcome on your own. A lot of people have strict parents, or were molested as kids, and therefore have hangups about sex as an adult. Most of us get past that and eventually have normal sex lives. If she is younger, then maybe she just needs some time and practice to get with the program. But if it becomes a prolonged issue then she may need counseling and you may need to look for a new girl.

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In addition, I would also suggest on the physical pain front that there are tons of ways to have sex. Besides not bottoming out, or different positions, maybe try anal? If you really like her, I'd exhaust the options before ending the relationship.

At least that way when you walk away you won't regret not trying everything.

I think she's simply not turned on, and that's why she doesn't enjoy it. You have to show her that sex is an enjoyable experience, and not something associated with pain or guilt. Don't worry about hitting her G-spot, make her enjoy the motion of the ocean before you try to make her come. Do try to make her feel relaxed, kiss her everywhere, make her wet, etc.

Frankly I'm quite surprised at the advice given so far. The OP does not mention an enormous penis, a tiny vagina, or some medical condition. He does mention that she is not enjoying it, not in the moment, not relaxed, feeling guilty, etc.

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Timo, yes!
She told me she doesn't feel relaxed, and she keeps thinking about work problems and other stuff
Anything but the fact that we're having sex

I think there's a bigger problem, and I know what it is,I just don't know how to fix it so I'll open a new thread