Well I'm new to this page so I'd like to introduce myself!!

I'm Chris, I'm from Greece (crazy huh?? )

I'm almost 20 years old (9 days left ).

I'm not good at having a relationship with women but I am extremely good (and I have mastered it) at friendships with girls! Being a good friend for all the women I know, led me here!

I have two months that I'm searching how to change myself so I don't know much!

I do not have any specific methods or pickup lines when I try to speak to women.

About my hobbies and passions, I like to read books listening to music and be as funny as I can every day.

I have two goals that I want to accomplice in my life! First I would like to be "Deception Detector" and second I would like not to be as shy as I am right now in front of girls and to know what to tell them to get them interested to me.

Well I would like to tell you that in my whole lifetime I had sex with one girl (she was a 18 year-old girl and Ι had sex with her after I had paid for it first. It was about 4 years back!!) and second I had only one relationship, it lasted 3 days, and she was the first girl I've ever kissed! (That was almost before a year! I've never kissed a girl ever since!)

Well I would like to share this last thing with you because I don't what to do and I want a solution! To begin with there is a girl in my school (or college I don't know how you call it ), but in a different department, and we had a great relationship between us. She was laughing with my jokes and I was laughing with hers! We had a great time and for that reason I thought that she was perfect for me, and I believe shewas thinking the same thing. One day I was talking to one of her female classmates via facebook and I asked her out but only to get to know each other friendly!! She told me that she had already a boyfriend and I replied "Wait, I want you to go out with me friendly!!" She apologized for her mistake and the next day I found out that she told every one she knew in her class incuding the girl I was in crush. I text her two days after that and she told me that I was disturbing her and not to speak or texting to her again. I was confused that moment and asked her "why what I've done to you and you're so mad at me" and she replied "go bother your friend <name> and leave me alone". That happened before one week and I really have feelings for this girl so I don't want to give up on her! What should I do? Im desperate!!

P.S. Sorry for the long post!!

If you see a girl that you like, don't wait too long before approaching her. That is the mistake you made with the girl that you actually like. The way to overcome your shyness is to actually approach women that you like. If you like a woman in a romantic way then approach her and tell her. What is the worst that could happen? If she says she is not interested in you, then move on and approach someone else.

Ok!!! Thanks for the advise!! Now what do I have to do to win back her trust??? I am really interested to her!! I do not a ccept to lose her in that lame way!!! I know some will say that "You didn't have anything from the very beggining" but it's not like this. I had her attention! Please, I beg for help here!!

Hi Chris. You said, "I do not accept to lose her in that lame way!!!"

You cannot 'demand' that a girl like you. She either likes you or she doesn't. I know you like this girl but you have to be prepared for the reality that she may not like you in the same way. The only way to be sure is to approach her and tell her how you feel about her. If she is not interested in you, approach other girls. There are so many women out there who would love to go out with you.

I understand what you said, and thanks for the advice, but I called the way "lame" 'cause I don't know whether she likes me or not!! If she doesn't, I lose her but it isn't the same!! I believe so that she did!! I want to talk to her badly but I'm afraid of the response and I do not know what to say to her!!

You need to read some PUA material and develop a complete gameplan. As a rookie starting from square one you arnt going about it the best way by positing here for general info at the level that you are at.

PM me for specific book/program suggestions, ive read/seen almost all of them.

Hello again Chris. You said, "I want to talk to her badly but I am afraid of the response..."

What are you afraid of?

What is the worst that could happen if you talk to a girl that you like? The worst that could happen is that she says she is not interested in you in a romantic way. That may not be the news that you want to hear from her. But guess what? That is life! You cannot always get everything you want. You need to be okay with that. That is why I said that if you start approaching other women, you won't be so concerned about whether or not a particular girl likes you or not.

As for this particular girl, why not meet up with her and just tell her what's on your mind. Say whatever you want. It doesn't really matter. You need to get over this FEAR of women you have. Tell her that you like her and you want to know how she feels about you. If she is not interested in you, you can remain friends with her if you wish, but start approaching other women. You will be amazed at how soon you will forget about her.

I agree with ez... you can't let FEAR be a motivating factor. The only way to build up your confidence is to work through your fear.

Bravery isn't the absence of fear... it is taking action in spite of that fear.

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"I'm not good at having a relationship with women but I am extremely good (and I have mastered it) at friendships with girls! Being a good friend for all the women I know, led me here!"

If you've been hanging out with women as friend and you want have relationship with them, then you've been doing the research from the wrong library...(i know its from a film somewhere)

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