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baby steps calibrated to your skill level.
If just saying "Hi" to 10 girls a day is a challenge then you need to do it. Its all about gradual desensitization.
If your trying to skip the baby steps because you are questioning their effectiveness then you are going to be a slow learner
Detox75 hit it right on the head.
It's all about where your comfort level there. There is not "tried and true - works every time - instapill" that will get you every girl you want. Fact is, you need to build your confidence because women are EXPERTS at sensing insecure and people who lack confidence.
Instead of worrying about the outcome of what will happen next, what will she say --- or even if she'll go home with you --- throw it all out the window. Be happy and
reward yourself that you gathered the courage to talk to a girl. The end result and everything else is immaterial and doesn't matter.
And you'll find that once you move past that, your confidence will go through the roof, and the rest will come. You stop worrying about what to say, where the conversation goes, etc. The rest will come, man.