I met a girl at a party a few weeks back, number closed and was with her pretty much all night. There was plenty of kino, kissing but it didn't lead to a lay (she's an 8 and I probably should have pushed harder).

Anyway due to me working away and her being away a good 3 weeks went by before we managed to pen in meeting up but due to the time that went by it kind of felt like a first date scenario (we met for a few drinks and played some pool), it took a while to feel comfortable and I struggled to strike up that same rapport we had first time around. We kissed a coupe of times but I fear I've come across too "nice" (urgh). We had fun so I don't think interest is dead but the frame of out next meet-up absolutely has to change.

Mistakes as I see it are not being sexual enough since the number close and if/when i see her again this needs to change fast. I have no problem getting sexual on a night out but have difficulty leading a "few drinks" style date this way, any tips? Seems easy when you're dancing because it just comes naturally, I guess building up to it with any contact prior to the date is a big factor too.

I would be doing push/pull all night almost as a tease. One second grab her and give her a kiss. The next push her away and continue conversation or take her around the venue you're at. It seems like you have a good handle on it so far. Just don't over think it. As long as you keep it sexual you will be fine. You should see if you can invite her over for dinner and/or a movie. It's super easy to get sexual at your place and if you've been connecting with her well she should feel comfortable coming over at this point.

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movie date at your place or her place. Make it a romantic comedy if she's into it or horror for some 'protection' kino. The scary parts speak for themselves and she wants your comfort then.

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If you did not keep the "sexual frame" during those 3 weeks, either chatting, phone, texting to arrange a sexual encounter(subcommunication), then i am a big fan of replicating the same scenario that got you together in the first place, to replicate the same "familiar vibe" that she liked about you, and from them eject to a closing location.... Other than that try to see if she will bite for a sexual encounter, "watching a movie at home" or "dinner and a movie at home"...

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How to make a date more sexual? Simply "rock out with your cock out".

But don't sue me if you end up in jail.

In all seriousness, the best thing you can possibly do for sexual tension is to read 60yoc method.

If you don't feel like reading it, just focus on strong eye contact, maintaining some sort of intrigue, good kino escalation and doing what you can to not break sexual tension (ex: laughing or nodding when she is talking to you)

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Sorry to highjack the thread but do you have a link for that? I'd be interested is reading this!

....yeah 100th post

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Just to update you i've managed to lead the txt frame much more towards sexual today so I think the next time we hookup will be loads easier to escalate. I also like the idea of replicating the scenario where we met and it may well be a "night out" the next time I see her so it's ideal.

Managed to get her to qualify her "talents" via txt, cue a huge txt about her being a dancer, her saying i'd look hot in a tutu, me saying she'd look hot out of one and boom it's game on. I'll update this thread after the next time I see her.