Cheers Romino, btw that last one about the roper in the eye was jus a joke, i would never say that to a chick, hence the lol!
Bad news iam afraid, she has promptly left the dating site! So possible options are,
1: forget it and move on
2: send her the same negi message on facebook instead, without adding her first.
3: add her and send the message
4: add first, if she accepts then send her the message with a direct number close

and heres the final message,
Hey I haven’t heard a squeak from you in a while, whats wrong did youre pet cat like the taste of your tongue? :-p Has anyone ever told you that youre eyes look a little like a foxes, u know the ones with the big ears and large noses. I know you said facebook, but you still got to see my pictures eventually:-) I would love to try out sheesha with you, so long as you promise not to get me high and then try rape me:-) So inbox me youre number or we are sooo not sharing that packet of skittles together!?

i like the msg. go for option 3

you got notthing to loose, right?

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27, Switzerland

Don't worry too much about what you say to a woman. Say what is on your mind. If you like something about her then tell her. You can keep things simple. For example, go up to her and say, "Hi there. You look friendly. I just had to come over and say hi. How are you doing?" Just tell her what is on your mind.

unfortunately my online experiences are not working out. so far all failures, btw no reply from the foreign chick on facebook.

So my next plan is to try hook up with an ex, for confidence, the ''pre-selected picture'' and fun times:-D
would appreciate ure feedback and criticisms. I did post this elsewhere on site but zero replies

Summary: went out with HB7 for a year, at first we were both serious about one another, but we began to distance when I found out she hangs out with multiple guys and she suspected I was checking multiple girls. However towards the end she still wanted to meet up for her weekly thirsts for cuddles kisses etc I for a short while (2months) I went along. Eventually I asked her to get serious with me, she says no, I have a AFC hissy right there infront of her, we cuddle hug and part ways knowing that we'll prob never see each other again. (she wanted a F-buddy)
I go off to travel in asia for a month, BTW guys AWESOME way to get over a girl! trust me . When I get back iam all spiritual happy and shit so I do what i percieve to be the right thing. i missed her birthday whilst i was gone, she made a decent effort on my birthday with presents and fun activities;-) so i feel the need to give back. I send her some presents in a box wrapped we have a long convo on phone although initially its going okay with thankyou, i liked ure card i like ure present blah blah, for watever reason she doesnt seem to make her usual effort/ basically she cant be arsed with me. I suggest subtly that i could be passing through her city in a week, and she says she wont be there. So figured she aint interested and doesnt want to know.
Anyways its been one year since and she aint called, texted, facebooked, SPAM and neither have I except one quick 'Hi' message on SPAM about 6 months ago, which she blanked.

BUT Im now looking for all the causal relations I can get, so my questions are guys:

1/ should i go for her?

2/ How do i do this? / shes got a guy on the go, If iam right shes looking for the best thing/ she always is! So if I text her or call her do i approach as a friend and ask for a coffee, or drop a naughty text immedietely ?

when we were going out, if we had a fight/argument, I wud text a ''x'' she would reply back with x (indicating kissing) and we'd continue getting more and more naughty so worked as a great way make amends for damage caused. yeah so i was thinking of Watsapping or texting her a 'x' to see if i get i reply, if not i can always say it was a typo!?

Another idea: when were going out, i recommended she read 'life of pi' which she did and loved, so we talked about that quite a bit coz the book is very interesting.
So i was thinking of texting her: Hey did we make a pact between us that, if they ever made a movie about 'life of pi' we would go and watch it at IMAX together?!
i dont think we made that pact, but i was thinking shed be enticed with prospect of a date

there must be some overlap with other people in socal. had people accusing me of copying someone else already

hey amanpua, it was a pleasure to help you. sadly i have to say goodbye for now. I found out that street/bar sarging is so much more fun and even fucking easy and gets results faster than online stuff so im spending time there good luck! ps. its all about inner game. with the right mindset, you rule every place! cheers

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27, Switzerland

No probs dude. And thanks for all the help and advice youve given its been a great learning curve and all the more fun when people like you make the effort to reply back to posts, my most gracious thank you goes out you AND all the other guys who have helped on this thread
PS: Romino, if youre ever in the UK, be sure to get in contact, who knows maybe we can go out sarging, Style and Mystery style!

It has been a while since I posted anything on this site with my recent involvement in the military (I thought the chicks loving a man in uniform was a joke). This was the first place I came to check up on what you have been up to and honestly dude, you are going to find out what makes you the best version of your poon snagging self. Regardless of what men tell you to do find out the things that are unique to your personality and do them.

Going back with an ex for the most part is a bad idea once you mutually drop each other there is a reason why you don't want to get back with them. Constantly push towards the type of mate you want. You should never have to compromise for a girl you don't think is attractive, because you want to boost your frame.

With that I really genuinely believe you can get the type of girls you want. I also want to wish you the best as I will be shipping soon. It's been cool bouncing ideas around to you with Romino. (I told you direct game was better then online )

Have fun my European "brothas" I'll be sure to dedicate my next shot to your pick up endeavors!

best openers, IMO, are anything that provokes/necessitates a response:

- a non-AFC compliment on her clothing
- an observation of her surroundings
- a slight tease of either her photo or something on her profile

Openers mean shit in the grand scheme, but are crucial to get a foot in the door.