Teenager - low sex drive



Users browsing this forum: No registered users and 14 guests
Post new topic Reply to topic   Board index » Inner Game » Beliefs and Confidence Building, Self-Esteem, and General Inner Game




Author Message
 Post subject: Teenager - low sex drive
PostPosted: Thu Dec 13, 2012 1:29 pm 
Offline
New to MPUA Forum

Joined: Thu Jan 26, 2012 7:14 pm
Posts: 28
Ok, I mentioned this in another thread I made, but I feel like this needs to be addressed on its own.

I'm 19, close to 20, have had no sexual experiences, and this is something that constantly plagues me.

I find it hard to focus on anything, and at University where sex is a big aspect of life, i struggle to concentrate on work or studies. My lack of action is a huge problem which I keep bottled up.

It's only now that it's dawned on me how low my sex drive is. I thought it was a confidence problem that I don't approach women, but I'm a confident, fun guy. I can make conversation with anyone, I just lack the desire to go and be sexual with women. I wait for them to come to me. Now don't get me wrong, I am attracted to women, and do want to have sex with them, I just lack the ruthless hunger to do so.

Any advice?


Top
   
PostPosted: Thu Dec 13, 2012 3:35 pm 
Offline
MPUA Forum Enthusiast

Joined: Wed Jul 27, 2011 5:30 pm
Posts: 85
Hi,

I believe that the issue is not that you have a low sex drive but rather more that you have not had sex to enjoy it and know what your missing out on. Once you have had a girl in bed I think you will see things differently.

I would suggest going to students night clubs!

Approach direct - "You look familiar are you studying x, I'm at (whatever) Uni... Your not, oh well my name is......
After that, just touch her now and again on her arm, shoulder... Challenge her... Say the girls on my course are so well behaved (say with a smile) I prefer women who are adventurous and down for a good party.. are you adventurous?
Really tell me about it, you looked to me like a quiet nice girl
Then lead - offer her your hand, come on lets go dance, get a drink (whatever)
take her, and small talk, kiss her... move around venue a few times, towards the end, I'm bored lets go (if she asks where) tell her its a suprise (if she asks again) we are going to chill at mine I've got the best halls you could imagine... (joking face)

Throughout all of this, have confident body posture, slow gestures, do not twitch etc, take confidence from knowing that this has worked for me countless times... Just project a fun, confident, cheeky personality... and by touching her and leading her, she will get attracted by that.. it a girl is not responsive, repeat on another until you get a result. might take 5 to 10 for your first time... Other than that it helps if the girls on her own or in a small group.. You need to lead her away from her friends when theres attraction probably within the first 5 minutes otherwise it cant go anywhere!!!
and approaching dire girls.. you could lead with, are you study (whatever subject)


Top
   
Display posts from previous:  Sort by  
Post new topic  Reply to topic  [ 2 posts ] 

All times are UTC


You cannot post new topics in this forum
You cannot reply to topics in this forum
You cannot edit your posts in this forum
You cannot delete your posts in this forum
You cannot post attachments in this forum

Search for:
Jump to:  

Can we be honest?

We want your email address. Let me send you the best seduction techniques ever devised... because they are really good.
close-link