So I've talking/hanging with a girl from my class and the semester just finished.
I'm 21 shes 19(and a party/drug girl)

Strong strong IOI's

Caught her looking at me a lot, before I ever noticed how hot she was
She slowing made her way over to my side of the room and sat next to me everyday
Asked her for her # and she got WAY too excited

First study session together she got real close, lots of accidentally touching.
Moved to her touching me more and more, hugs etc etc. ( I never initiated the physical contact)
Laughs at everything I say, smiles at me a lot, gets nervous when talking to me.

I know she's into me and is very physically attracted to me but...


She has a boyfriend (from highschool and goes to different college, not too serious) which she only mentioned once to me when she came to me CRYing about how he hurt her feelings. Not to concerned about this aspect.

And she seems to have a million friends and a million (younger) dudes on her. She is so damn popular and lives a busy ass life. It's hard to keep her attention for more then a few minutes at a time.

I've asked her out to grab a pitcher with me, she go super excited but was busy studying for exams, made plans to do it in the future but never happened. Ignored her a bit after to punish her, she seems to be even more nervous around me..

Worst part is she lives in the "college town" away from campus and about 20minutes away from me. I lived in that area years ago and if I still did I would invite her to my place (everything is walking distance) and I would simply get it down. But I don't...

It would be very hard (nearly impossible) to get her to my house now, considering is way on the other side of town. And she lives in the "college town" bubble and doesn't ever need to leave.

I need to find a way to have her invite me over to her place..
My Ideas:

1. Go to her place and smoke...
2. I'm in the "college town" area for a party and I ask her to pregame
3. I say I'm in the area with my dog and ask if she wants to see it.

First one I almost got done, but got shy and missed my chance. Are these good ideas tho? Any suggestions?


Where I am now: Semseter is over, we had a great final study sesh, she seemed so happy to be around me and was physically all over me (even stated she wanted to sit next/close to me rather than across) I txted her about the final and she got back to me instantly. But I think I messed up, I said "That class was fun, lets chill sometime over the break." --She didn't respond.

She is going home for 6weeks (leaves in a few days) and I know I wont be able to see her till then.

ARRGG WUT SHOULD A GUY DO!

P.S. you should know I'm a very sweet/sensitive guy and am not good at pressuring girls into sex, even tho I know she wants it.. bad.. I hope?

You need a mental reframe. You don't have to pressure her into sex, but you DO need to show that you are sexually interested in her. You have to tell her why you like her. Of your 3 ideas, the first is the best, because its a little more to the point and all that extra shit in unnecessary. If she's showing you such strong IOIs, then fuck all the bullshit. Invite yourself over to her place (to smoke is perfectly fine) or if you have a car you can invite her over to your place and pick her up (you can say you have to go that way anyway for whatever reason). But just showing up in her area and inviting her out isn't the best idea. If you only have a few more days you just gotta go for the kill and fuck all the bullshit. (Thats my mentality whether I only have a few days or not btw.) If it works out, great, but if not, whatever, just go to the next girl.

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Thanks for the feedback,

I may be in her area tonight, I'll hit her up late night and see what she's up too

Report will follow..