Hey lads.

Just wanted to get some feedback. Its pretty easy for me to get a number or two when I go out - thats not a issue but finding it hard to get the females to meet up and keep them after that.

Even when I think i'm on a winner and that i think that I am guaranteed that a female likes me someting seems to happen that makes them lose interest and not want to know me. 3 examples from this year.

1 chick I get her number and she gives me a kiss on the lips (she initiates it) and then goes her own way. When I call her no response.

Example 2. I met this girl and she messages me 10 minutes after leaving saying "thanks for being awesome" then a little interaction with her and then I stopped interacting with her for a while via mobile. Then after a while I msg her and she said "I don;t know who this is - who are you - I don;t know no blah blah blah"

Most recently on Friday night I met this nice italian girl seemed keen as. I wasn;t any more sure of anything else in the world. She said to me a couple of times call me (usualy if a girl gives you her no and doen;st want you to cal lshe won;t be saying to you to call). I sent her a sms todayl her and she pretends she doesnt know who it is and asks me not to contact her. I said i would call her on MOnday and instead texted her on Tuesday but I wouldn;t think that was reaosn enough for her to say leave me alone.

And one more to put the icing on the cake - Pommy chick says to me do you want to come and sit with me and my friend and have a chat - (usualy girls don;t go up to guys and ask them to sit with them unless they are interested) I get her number and then no reponse.

The 1st 3 interactions I thought all went well - body language was good, short to the point and each one I thought would get some attention afterwards but they fizzled out.

I was wondering if anybody else has had similar experiences and just at a guess what could be sparking this type of shift of interest?

Thanking you in advance for your reply.

That's very common. In fact, Style from The Game even said that he'd get numbers and never even bother calling them most of the time. Because girls are so flaky. And that guy was a master pua!

It's like sales. Ever done sales? If a customer is like "Well, I'll think about it and call you if I'm interested." That's basically a 95% chance it'll be a no. But if you keep the customer's attention and get them to sign on the dotted line that same day, then it's a 95% yes (since 5% will back out after the fact). See the difference?

I found this out the hard way like many other pua's. You only get what you want out of a set while you are in set. The number close means shit. Treat it as though you'll never see them again. Skills360 was saying how you should always go sexual early on. This isn't just so that you can f-close on the first night (which isn't exactly a bad thing), but it's so you can insure that you have established enough attraction and connection with the girl so that she remembers you. The fact that you have girls saying "Who is this?" after you call/text them tells me that you are not spending nearly enough time with them, nor are you doing the right things while you are still in set.

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Thanks for your response. I was thinking my age may be more a obstacle than I giuve it credit for however most people say that I don't look my age (37) and in the above examples when the females showed interest I was the same age at the time they showed interest to the time they got cold !!! (well maybe a few days younger).