Got into a relationship with a girl about 2 weeks ago and I must admit I’m afflicted with oneitis now. I miss her so much blah blah such that I’ve started to talk about kids, marriage when I’m with her, and that actually puts her off. I know it, because her kisses have become less passionate, her being less touchy feely and such. I know she still has feelings for me but perhaps I took things a little bit too fast and it is stressful for her.

Lately, her messages have gotten slower and is much less enthusiastic. I talked to her yesterday night about how the future doesn’t really matter so much and what matters is how happy we are right now. She was actually very receptive to that and we had a nice good night chat.

However, this morning when I smsed her again she hasn’t replied to my message yet.

Looking back, I definitely reverted to afc mode after I got together with her. Fuck, I even bought her flowers and wrote poetry. I also got visibly jealous when we went clubbing together with a bunch of friends and this hot guy started talking to her.

How should I move on? Should I freeze her out for a while and get on with my life? How do I reignite her interest?

Any advice much appreciated.

I've been in a similar situation recently where I was a bit AFC and wasn't leading the relationship.

I pretty much did what TonyKing recommends. I stopped being all needy and jealous, started exercising again to take my mind off this girl and when I saw her, I fucked the shit out of her and asked her who owns her pussy etc and she was literally calling me her master by the end of it. Now I barely even text her or anything, if I speak to her its by phone call and she is feeling really attached to me again.