Now then chaps! I'm Reece, from the sun drenched paradise that is North East Lincolnshire. Now that the cringing from writing that out has abated, i'll give you all a little insight into my situation.
Only found out about PUA a few weeks back, and the whole system intrigues me. The 'plan' so to speak, is that i can develop a natural game, much like the one Richard La Ruina possesses. His own experiences strike a chord with me, in that all through school i wasn't blessed with style or charisma due to crippling shyness.
My confidence has improved immeasurably since then, as has my fashion sense. I don't do too badly with girls, but i realise the wrong things i do are holding me back quite often. I will emulate my namesake, one day.. :*)
I'll give you a little story from last night. Met up with some mates, and headed out for a drunken birthday celebration for one of the mates in question. Have been reading a few tips from PUA Training earlier on yesterday, and all the info was going back and forth in my mind throughout the night.
I decided to watch how other guys went about it, studying their and the girls reactions, looking for the guys that fail miserably, to learn from their mistakes. Didn't try any sets, as it was to me, a reconaissance mission. I noticed two girls looking over at me and my friends, but at that moment my mates were about to leave the club. Not ideal.
The girls looked over us again, and at that moment i decided to bite the bullet. No, i didn't approach, i tried something else. I smiled, and waved the two girls goodbye, and walked away, to leave with my mates. Wanted to send out a smooth, indifferent persona. As i'm leaving, the two girls grabbed me from behind.
They'd approached me!
One seemed really keen on me and the other was the wing girl. Thankfully the keen girl was better looking, but still no more than a 6/7. I told them i was leaving, but gave a few smouldering looks towards the keen one, then pulled her to me, more eye contact and started kissing her. Still said i had to go, but got the girls number and kissed her again. This was in the space of 5 minutes.
So a n-close and a k-close, which i'm proud of, as i made it happen rather then getting lucky so to speak. And it was a natural thing, no awkwardness or pressure on either side. That one experience has convinced me that i can do better if i don't accept that luck is the only factor with girls.
CHAT
