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Joined: Sun Jul 29, 2012 1:12 pm
Posts: 4
Location: Toronto
Please excuse my typing, I'm on my BB so it's hard.
About me:
I'm Asian (Chinese), came to Canada when I was 3
Very good looking
Popular at school (Most popular in middle school)
In my freshman year
Have been in the PUA community for a year
Confident
I use cocky jokes often

The problem:
Alright, so there's this girl that sits next to me during Science class. She's a HB8, a little shy and very sweet (nice). She doesn't hang out with the bitchy types, and pretty much all her friends are girls. I showed confidence right from the beginning, and am still doing it. I've never shown an inch of neediness, which also helps. We don't talk much though, which is the issue. She's shy and whenever I talk to her she just laughs it off and avoids my eyes. Don't get me wrong though, she's showed IoI in class:
She brushes her elbow against me and doesn't move much
She has seductive eye contact which is copying mine (showing similarity)
Has attempted to start conversations with me although they were all situational ones

But has showed IoD (or maybe just shy):
Feet pointing to the opposite direction
Avoids my eyes often by looking down

I have tried to get her jealous:
When she goes and talks to her friends I would go and talk to a group of friends and we'd be having an amazing time, and I'm usually the center of attention throughout.
I talk to girls right in front of her and flirt with them while obswrving any signs of jealousy through my peripheral vision
Have shown disinterest when she uses situational openers, show interest when she doesn't( not very often though!)

Anyways, I'm attracted to her because she's just so sweet and innocent, and she's fucking hot.

So my question is, how do I game her? Any tips or even routines are welcomed, really, anything.

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Freshman highschool guy who wants to master the secrets to being popular with girls.

Well you are good looking, popular, have been in game for a year and she likes you. Just game her like you usually would and isolate her to escalate. Personally, I would stop rapport breaking with her (never punish a girl with disinterest when she opens you, you reward good behavior). I would also stop flirting with other girls in front of her, because if one of her friends starts to like you, then she might not be able to do anything with you. It is better if other girls are flirting with you, and she sees that.

My method of approach would be to say that "I think we would be good friends, we should get to know each other better" and as soon as she is okay with that I´d say when she does something good "haha stop it, or I´m going to have to seduce you". When dealing with social circles, doing just kino can get you into the friendzone, you need to make sure there is a lot of tension between you.

Just game as you usually would.

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so ya i just read ur post so here is my advise.
start writing notes to her in class and pass them back n fort,shy people are way more comfortable with text then talk and she will open up to you way more easily with text(as in writing)think of something cool to talk about,something that would spark interest then write it on a piece of paper and give it to her,of course end it with a question so she writes something back n if u run out of things to write just draw a tik tak to on the paper n start playing tik tak to with her passing the paper back n forth.Make sure ur the one that end the convo, not her, stop before she does . when the note passing is about to die down pass her a note asking for her number and end it at that.then u could go home n call her or text her or w/e.Reply and tell me how it goes.


*chameleon9*

Thanks for the reply guys!
Warmth gave a very insightful advice; to not punish when she uses situational openers
To Charmeleon9:
Would there be any way to start a note passing? I want an opener that will get the conversation going but doesn't sound boring or serious. How would I start the note passing? Do I just take out a strip of paper in the middle of class and pass it to her? Wouldn't it be a bit awkward? I'm new to note passing so I need your advice.

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Freshman highschool guy who wants to master the secrets to being popular with girls.

run the tik tak to game,draw the tik tak to board on the paper and put a X somewhere n pass her the note so she could put the O,this is most likely gonna work and do it when she seems bored not if she is having fun cuz it would just make shit awkward.and u could put a smile face on the paper on the side of the tik tak to bored and see how thing go from there, if u find things to say and they seem good write it n pass it back n forth but dont over think about what ur gonna say because thats just gonna mess ur head up n effect ur game.what i told u is a great ice braker,tell me how it goes.



*chameleon9*

Sure you can do that.. but it doesn´t escalate from where they are right now....

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How should I escalate? I'm assuming it's different gaming the (super) nice shy innocent girls than with the typical popular girl. She can't contribute that much to the convo (won't escalate it but will reply, won't flirt back but will look down), so how can I make her break out of her shell without seeming awkward because they are very sensitive to that.

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Freshman highschool guy who wants to master the secrets to being popular with girls.

My opinion is you don't really need to do the note passing thing. See if you can really work her social circle and then isolate her as said before. Then, set up a day 2 outside of school (somewhere fun, not restaurant or movie.) make sure to get a # or FB so you can contact her later.
Regarding the shyness, try to match her energy level and build rapport. Talk about her hobbies, interests, aspirations and get to know her at a slightly deeper level.

Good luck!
-mohya

dude the note passing builds comfort and what u guys are saying doesn't make sense if she is shy n wont go along with a simple thing as note passing then how the heck is he gonna get close to her,once he opens his mouth its most likely gonna be awkward till the end cuz she wont contribute shit to the conversation.If i were u i would run like 2 tik tak to games and then write on the note "i want to show u something really cool after class" then when the class is done run "the cube" on her.After that she will find u interesting n different and u can ask for her number or facebook after that.Try having a cocky funny personality but be serious when u need to be serious,dont try to be funny 24/7.

link to "the cube"
http://www.venusianarts.com/forum/archi ... -1482.html

and to mohya,he is in 9th grade not at a club and besides he said she sits next to him in science class so she is already isolated why the heck would he make things harder for himself and isolate her when she is with a group,it doesn't seem reasonable.

and to warmth,i hope what i wrote answers ur question,and i agree with what u said too.

also check out this video and their channel,it could help alot.
dont have one teacher study the methods of different teachers and see which one u like best.u could mix up different teachings to make ur game stronger and not predictable.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=33aMfi50VpI
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VoBLbtfRjwc




*chameleon9*

Hey chameleon, I meant no disrespect buddy . I just meant that I feel like note passing is unnecessary in this situation but, I can see your logic behind it.
I knew he sat next to her. But I was just talking about lunch game. Its really important to hang around with her and her friends because you have to remember that she's obviously comfortable around her friends. That allows you to learn to work with other factors instead of starting off with 1-on-1.

mohya i get what your ur sayin but i mean no disrespect as well but i wouldn't do that because that way u need to be so charming to win the whole group over and thats not a easy task and if one of her close friends ends up finding u annoying or doesnt like u that could very well ruin ur chances.If he has her alone in the class thats where he should get his game on.

An animal waits for the prey to be alone then it attacks because he has alot more chances making a kill like that.




*chameleon9*

Tell her you've been bored lately and you'd like to get her number so you can talk to her sometime because she seems like she'd be fun to talk to. Make it really playful and innocent.

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Alright I have science every 2 days so tomorrow ill be seeing her. Are there any convo starters I can use that has been tested, the cube is too cheesy, I want it to be natural. There's a teacher strike going on here in Toronto so I might try that, get her to come with me to the walkout tomorrow.

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Freshman highschool guy who wants to master the secrets to being popular with girls.

i would do that but ok,good luck and the cube is not cheesy its so interesting because it so accurate.Its way more fun and interesting then talking about the teacher strike,teachers are underrated and need to get payed more but i honestly dont think a teenage girl would give two shits about that.but again good luck lol.