Hey what's up puas, so here where I'm at this moment, I just met this HB few days ago at POF, we chat, had a little laugh then asked for her number. She said she doesn't give out number online but offered me her facebook instead.

Same night I chat her up, doesn't seem to go anywhere. I know it's still early since we've only just starting to talk, but it feels like she won't get warm up by my jokes. Last night I chat her up again but she was sick, so I made a joke told her I'd bring her chicken soup and a night time cuddling bear to her, but I'd be the one who's gonna be in that bear costume. She replies back with a ":P". So I ended the conversation and said goodnight to her.

What I'm getting from her was, because she just broke up with her bf and maybe not ready to jump on a date. (She said she still hurts after the break up on her POF profile and she also deleted her account after I added her on facebook). So my question is should I work harder trying to build lots of comfort before even asking her out? I always screw this part up so and advice would be much appreciated. Thanks.

And I'm not sure if this is the right place to post this please let me know if I need to move it to somewhere else. Cheers.