My girlfriend and I have been dating for about a year and a half. I had a little experience with PUA that let me carry on the relationship for about a year, but i started slipping into beta mode once we decided to have a committed relationship. What happened now is maybe i gave her too much attention, and i noticed a significant decrease in attraction and attention she gives me. An orbiter showed up at her job, he is her Boss, and according to her , also her "best friend".
I ended up having an AFC moment, and on a drunk moment i called and asked her about him and told her to tell me if she liked him. BIG mistake. She said she doesn't know why I'm being so upset and jealous lately, shes caught me crying like a panzy a couple of times. And now she said because I don't trust her and make her upset a lot, she would give me a "last chance" if i upset her again she might break up with me. My number one goal is to save the relationship, because after all its my fault i slipped into AFC mode, ruining a perfectly good relationship, and I was (and still am) in Love and yes, i realize it might be one-itis. what should i do to get her attraction and love back(assuming i don't have either anymore) and work out the relationship ?

Your help would be really greatly appreciated , this weak moment caught me off guard and i really need advice.

Thank You

Fuck, really? Man, if I were you and my girl told me something like that I would break up with her FIRST. You are caring and nice guy, I bet her boss is not. She wants to fuck her own life? Let HER do it. Don't waste your life on it.

I love my girl, I cried near her too, but I would NEVER, EVER made a toy out of me, her life is great because of me and I'm the most important person in my own life, she's next.

True, I should've but i lacked backbone to do it. I was being an AFC too about her boss so I apologized because it was a stupid move