Hey guys,

I met a shy HB9 at uni last month and we've been hitting it off pretty well up until now. She took my cigarettes and now I see her every day where she gives me my 'daily allowance' of 5.

It's been going pretty well the past few days, and she's thrown some IOIs:

- it's exam season when people usually come to school looking like zombies from the walking dead. She started to wear makeup and do her hair once we started flirting
- if she's in the library with her friends, and I txt her that I'm there, she comes down to see me so we can talk as well
- hair flipping, nervous fidgeting, etc

Now it's becoming a bit routine - this meet to get cigarettes thing - and I'm wondering how I can take it to the next level in our relationship. We've been on a coffee date casually, but I'd like to spend an entire evening with her.

With exams happening, I can't think of any ideas for a D2 that makes sense. I'm leaving the city right after exams, so I don't want to wait either. Do you guys have any cool ideas on:

1) another place to meet her for our cigarettes thing so that we can chat, alone
2) a low-pressure D2 idea that I can throw at her

Thanks!

Your lucky your school doesnt have a quite library like mine......damn that wouldnt be the place, but it could be a cool 1on1 date, anyway I think its cool that she holds your cigs, but a pack only has 20 in it which gives you 4 days......so do you just keep giving her your pack when you get a new one? Overall I would try to change how you can see her, not just using the cig thing as a way....Overall I think it could be percieved as you're being babysat in a way, but maybe im wrong, im by no means the most experienced, but maybe have a trusted friend that wont steal you're cigs hold them instead, otherwise I can see this becoming a situation where you get friend zoned, or eventually she cant see you for a day and might get bothered if you ask for your cigs, OR you could get upset because she becomes busy for a day and you cant get your damn cigs!!

Very good and informative exchange .. Thank you!

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Dubli

Ahh I think I messed this one up a little bit.

She invited me to go eat dinner (with 2 of her friends) and we had an okay time (she showed IOIs but I kind of pussyed out and didn't flirt back...). That night, I text her saying that I'm going to try to quit smoking, so now we don't see each other any more every day. Texted her the day after asking if she's going to a mutual friend's party, but she says she has to study for her exam.

It's been two days now.. I'm thinking of just giving her a call tonight and try to go for a coffee date.

Any advice / insights guys?

I don't think you messed up, you just sent some mixed signals. I would say your problem is with logistics, not with attraction. You can fix this by being more direct: invite her over to your place to watch a movie, smoke a cigarette, see you play air guitar, etc. Anything really, as long as it gets you two alone. (I would advice against a coffee date, you are not alone in a coffee place; moreover, you don't want to talk over coffee, you want to fuck her brains out.) Once you are alone with her, you must not pussy out. Not escalating when you are alone with a woman is a cardinal sin, so go for some carnal sin instead.

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One of the most useful things you will ever learn about body language.

Will give her a call tonight and see if I can get her alone for something tomorrow. Thanks for the tips!

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