| Okay, so long story very short, im not gonna type all the details, but I got a girl into S1 a little fast, 3 hours in fact....and got her name for facebook, waited the appropriate time, added her then got her phone number. I used the best text game I could and pulled off a 45 min date....Just drinks, no biggy, but being an afc I didnt use any game in the 2nd meetup, and im being thrown into the "texting Buddy" zone fairly quick.
Only good thing about the date, was that she held good body language with me the whole time, and seemed like she was enjoying herself and we didnt really feel akward. But she did cut our date off at the EXACT min she said she had until....where she was planning to meet up with a friend. I walked her back to her door building and she initiated the "hug"..
About Four days later I texted her, asking how her week looked and she said she was really busy, blah, blah ,blah, and it sounded like she had a ton of shit to do for classes, so I didnt text her again until this last Monday. I always throw crazy interesting and funny things at her in the texts, but dont wanna get stuck into some bullshit text buddy zone.
Last night I threw some serious text game [(by No longer texting like its an interview, not negging so hard(because negs were actually seeming mean)] and I finally closed the texting convo rather than it getting stale. I dont text this girl every day , and im creating some scarcity for myself. I closed the text chat yesterday by saying I was getting sick of texting and will call her when I find time. So now that I have opened up the playing field a bit (and I wont confuse her when I call her) whats my best plan of action for opening up another date?
This girl seems into me, but not all the way, strong chance that she is just being polite?
I dont think she has a lot of experience with guys, shes a freshman in my school and im a 3rd year, and I think shes just worried that she will/or does seem to be a slut, for the one night we spent together(no sex involved) just a lot of tongue and few shirts.....Shes at least attracted to me because we still kissed in the morning when we were sober, but........I just dont wanna end this at a one night stand, I wanna get to know her and see if shes worth anything (maybe potential relationship)
I mainly just need some wisdom from someone with experience to calm me down a little and coach me to victory!
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