Well its pretty simple, I work as a trip-security-guard which means I travel with groups of people around the country in trips and "guard" them(have a gun,also act as paramedic if needed etc)...
long story short I met this hot girl at the trip and she was the most "snob" or "cold acting" (if you will) of the bunch but obviously the hottest one of the bunch as well... so we flirted for a little bit, talked a little bit about life and what we do, I ended up taking her number and we met up a couple of days later..

anyways we been on about 2 dates probably since then, last one of which ended up in her house bed, we kissed for a little bit everything was cool, we made out just a little bit and then I grabbed her thigh when she all of a sudden told me to take it slow because she is and I quote : "a good girl" and must take it slower than my apparently "super paced approach"
after that bullshit story she acted pretty cold and as if we were strangers a little bit... so I gently asked her why she's acting out and got a "I'm just in a bad mood... has nothing to do with you" response (YEAH RIGHT), I wanted to leave her house right there cause I was pretty annoyed in that moment but I took my time before leaving because I kinda wanted to see what she'll do or whats wrong... nothing happened we just ended up laying next to each other on the bed watching TV (wtf?) which then followed by me leaving and her escorting me to my car, we kissed a tiny little "married for 30yrs" bird peck kind of kiss and I left pretty disappointed and it showed (must be honest here, that's probably a mistake - I should've acted like a pro poker player without showing any face expressions...)

the following days we talked on the phone for just a bit, nothing much to say from either side apparently, conversation pretty damn boring (first time I have this kind of shit no-purpose talks with a girl even though she is kinda smart), and the amount of phone calls and messages just escalated downwards from there turning into messages only of "whats up" "good morning/night" "what you doing?" and so on...

I called her up after a couple of messages we typed and asked her when can we see each other (a bad call from me you could say ) and also that I missed her a little bit, asked her if she missed me and she replied "yes a little bit" to which I was surprised because she's the one that had the crush on me (like she hit on me sorta thing you can say) in the first place so was expecting a bigger "YES!" which didn't come...
anyways she was saying I'm pushing her too much into this and that I want to talk to her too much (ain't I supposed to say that to her? LOL she's wearing the pants in the house...) and that she's not sure of what's next which kinda makes me feel like a wuss for not being able to carry her to the next step like a boss like I'm used to with other chicks I knew...

being the "big psychologist" that I am I asked her how she broke up with her ex and why (they were on a relationship for like 8 months or so), she responded it was because SHE was calling him too many times nagging and being "worried" and that he broke up with her because of that needy-attitude of hers...
Hey hey what do you know... I then obviously asked her if she is trying to do the same to me? since apparently (according to what she's saying here) -I- am now taking her role in the "calling too much" kind of behavior... bullshitting aside, personally I just think she's obsessed with that stupid break up she had and is over-reacting over what other people would call NORMAL "how you doin' there baby" calls...

Advise me what to do next, I was thinking of just cutting this crap right now, I think she's obviously playing me here and I hate that but maybe I'm wrong? please do elaborate on this...
also I'm sorry for my bad grammar I'm not American

BUMP.. no answers yet :O

Jesus. reading these kinds of stories just make me feel like walking away from my work right now here at Parliament and go visit some ladies at shady places to grunt and bathe in sweat as I revenge myself on a world so dominated by fussy, whimsical and moody women.

Dude, you are a fucking guard. You carry a fucking gun. You are supposed to be Agent Smith or Hitman or whatever. And you lay there in bed with some moody princess watching interchangeable chit chat on the tube as she whines about her ex ?!?

This is what you do. Pick up the phone. Call her and say: "Hey listen up. I thought you would want to see me tonight. And I am fully in the mood for some naughty things to happen." If she responds in a frigid way, say: "Hey it is my job to guard princesses but I know that deep in there they have the same desires as the rest of mankind. Pity they´re too stuck up to admit it."

LOL you are funny... but doesn't that seem kinda harsh? that'd work in my imagination or a porn movie maybe but in real life? not sure...

C'mon guys give me some more advice here

How do I draw her back in, she did have the initial crush on me and I just lost it all due to my "wanting to be with her" apparently, is it possible that in fact she is just not over her ex and I'm only a "sexy crush" to her and she still loves that dude (since HE broke up with her you know that affects chicks a ton...)

Up until this point you did very well, but I think you made a mistake here. You do not explicitly state your reaction, but I'm guessing that you said you disagreed, but let it stop you from doing what you wanted all the same. Next time, you do the exact opposite: you say you agree, but you do whatever you want. Don't be too obvious about it of course, first you take a step back, then you slowly take two steps forward. Point is, bitches don't know what they want, you do, so you just make them want what you want.

As for what to do now, I'm not sure. I can think of only two courses of action with potentially good outcomes:
1. Ignore her until she initiates contact. Move on in the mean time. This is you rejecting her, albeit not permanently.
2. Take the lead, initiate contact now, project sexual energy, and make sure you fuck her (final step is crucial). This involves the risk of her rejecting you. (This is, in so many words, what Mr. Marville suggested.)

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One of the most useful things you will ever learn about body language.

Hmmm I like that idea of making her run for it because she seems to get the feeling she can command me and that I will call her no matter what (she is hot and has lots of pursuers I guess) but I don't like that shit, I'm going to get some other chick on a photo hugging/kissing on FB to make her jealous, what do you think? play games with her mind since she SO fucking LOVES that apparently!
if she calls me out on that with some like "are you having fun kissing other girls?" or such I will give her the "we're not exclusive since you sure made me feel like that"

BASICALLY Imma make her jealous for putting me through this shit, I'm a good looking guy why the fuck would I get so uptight about this girl....

That you think this only happens in your imagination and porn movies is because deep-down you don´t believe the Epic life can be yours. I do, and as a result I have pulled off the craziest things. You are a loser if you go out of your way to make pictures with other girls and put them on facebook just to make one girl jealous.

First of all I get a sense you're bullshitting about your "glorious lifestyle" because if it was THAT good you wouldn't be looking for help on a "how to hit on chicks" forum nor posting or "helping" people (some help really) instead you'd be out banging chicks all day long.. (I know I would)

Second of all I'm not going out of my way to get with other girls, I party a lot and its not THAT hard to get a random chick to kiss you, all I want to do is change my mindset and not think about this girl all day long so I'm thinking its a great therapy for my thoughts.

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More input on this would be good

Ahahahahaha. Whah-hahahahahaha! Muahahahahaha !! BWAH-Hahahahahahahahahaha.

You, my friend, have NO IDEA of the Epic things that I am enrolled in. It defies what you hold to be credible.

The only reason I am not "banging a chick" right now is because I am making some hours at the Parliament at this moment. What if I tell you man, that some dude is going to pay me 800+ USD to be part of the Epic lifestyle (he already made the deposit), that another guy is fantasizing about me having my way with his hot French wife as we speak, and offers to pay for a week of Florence for me and her? What if I tell you that I went out with one of the most influential young women around just this weekend? That I received a text by my GF while a beautiful Spanish girl that I just had a bath with was sitting on my lap, and she could sense the buzzing of the phone in my pocket and comically said: "A text from your second girlfriend," and I just laughed it off? That a girl who had done everything, from bondage to SM to lesbian sex, literally cried after I performed cunnilingus on her, and said: "Never in my life has sex felt so intimate and satisfying with anyone before." And I checked to see that the tears were genuine. That I flew to the end of the earth to make love with a beautiful Brazilian girl and travelled through the jungle with her... And all of this is true. That a guy at the Parliament had a girl coming over from Eastern Europe who was counting on living in his house, except he had a girlfriend so he disappeared from her life completely. However she was travelling, and when she arrived at the station I said: "First, there´s the bad news. Max is not coming. Not now, not anytime soon. Then, there´s the good news. I am here, and more than ready to go out with you for dinner tonight if that´s okay with you." And she came.

Now it´s your turn again!

wtf is this delirium... dude don't take offense but please go away from my thread...

any other input from OTHER people possible?

Hehe, no buddy, it are things that happened in an abundantly, pristine crystal clear and sharp state of mind.

In truth, it is even more far-reaching, because I have a girlfriend who lives in Asia as well, and one who lives here close to work.The Asian girl wanted to fly to my house to spend some weeks with me, however I told her to wait because I am setting up all these courses for politicians and it can make me quite some money. Meanwhile I sleep with my local girlfriend. She is sexually insatiable and let me just quote you something she said: " All the guys I have been with always fantasize about sex and talk dirty, one even wrote he would make me scream in a cellphone text. But then they dont last, dont cum, and whenever you ask them for seconds or thirds they are tired. But what I feel for you is stronger than anything I felt previouslt - you always last, bever tire; and always deliver." I went out with her and her parents last weekend, had her last night and will have her this evening becayse she will bring me my clothes that I asked ger to wash.

Plz remind me to speak of 1 the train; and 2 my friends GF later. Sadly I cannot go into it right now as I write this by cellphone as all these politicians around me are discussing in French.

I should tell you about the train and my friend´s GF. So, the train. I was traveling back to the Parliament and texted my girlfriend: "Hello, I am on my way back to the city. Will arrive at the station at 12.00. Can you come and help me deliver my suitcase to my room? " She actually took a two hour break to come and do this and naturally she followed me to my room since this was just an excuse to do it during work hours.

She said: "But we cannot do this because I have my period." I said: "Girls always say this." Then I just started fondling her on the bed and she felt my excitement. She said: "Yes you know I liked to do it but I cant because of the period." I said: "And do you think that will stop me? Guys who allow themselves to be stopped by that just don´t want it badly enough. They are not real men, and they don´t love their girlfriends enough." As I fondled her she was getting really aroused. She told me she could feel my excitement. I replied that a few drops weren´t going to stop this excitement, that a real man in these situations just puts a towel on the bed. And I kept kinoing her and she gave in and I made love to her and she came quite many times. And she said that never in her life she had done this, and never in her life had she expected that a guy would be able to move her barriers like this.

Oh yes the second one, my friend is an official and he has a bunch of Eastern-European interns, fb´s, whatever, visiting him regularly. However his real girlfriend was getting suspicious. So he told me to entertain her and pretend to be the new intern while he was doing it with some Eastern-European girl. So I did this and I ended up composing a very touching poem for the girl while this was happening.