So I have this persistent issue. I get the same outcome EVERY time. I can get the girls numbers. That isn't the issue. I can have several conversations on and off for days and days with girls through text. I feel like they are animated and interesting. I say funny and unique things that I KNOW she's never heard before, and I make her laugh. I just know it. But then here comes the issue. I try to arrange a meetup. No pressure. I ask "lets grab something funky to eat." "Let's go do something fun." Yet, every single time after I send that single text where I show a desire to meet in any way shape or form, the girl DISAPPEARS. That text always ends my relationship with the girl and I never hear from her again? I'll let it go and try to start back the conversation any other way hours or days later and NOTHING. She's gone. WTF is this? I honestly feel like I am the only person with this issue. I just can't fathom why this happens. No matter how well the conversation goes or whatever it always happens. This is the wall I hit and the primary sticking point that has frustrated me to such an extent that I have fallen into pure misogyny. I HATE that this game takes such an extreme amount of skill and strategics. Girls disgust me with how difficult they make it.

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post a few examples of your text logs, and what your in person interaction was like, I'll analyze it

Ur not the only one dude, lately I have been having a similar issue... It is frustrating especially bc it is only recently started happening to me, so I am guessing something in my game has slipped.

I get enthusiastic numbers and girls are begging to give me digits and when I do hit them up they are uninterested

It happens to everybody...

Just ask her out on your first text, you've more chances to get a date at that moment than after a while of funny unique texts and it will safe you a lot of time.

try something like "my friends and i are going to blah blah bar tonight, bring some friends." less pressure... dunno though, def post some logs.

normally what i do is il say something like, "hey what you doing on saturday night? I was meant to be going out with my one buddy but he cancelled, do you wanna come instead"
Normally works for me
Hope it helped

Like someone already said, it happens to everyone. I was thinking the same way as you man, i saw some guys with no game getting numbers and dates with ease.

It takes time to get good at game, so take it easy and enjoy the process. First you get good at approaching, then your mid game sucks. But after couple of approaches, your mid game improves. Then you suck at closing, but then you push it to the limit and finally close (i remember my first n-close...sweet ...) After that you suck at texting, getting day 2s and so on. But guess what? You will get better. Its a law. Thats how it goes. You have to fall in order to learn how to walk.

About setting up day 2s: girls flaked on me so many times. I was really pissed. But then you think a bit about it. What i learned from my experience is that getting n-closes is not your first option when you close the girl. INSTANT DATE is the best option, but as we know, sometimes is not possible. So then you get her number and say to her that you would love to go there and there tomorrow, not next week, but soon as possible. Dont text to much. Text her just to set up a date and little flirting and thats it. Dont overdo it.

Establishing comfort and kino is something you have to do when you go for the number. She must get to know you a bit, so you wont be just "some guy" she meet. I know, you cant get to know each other that good when you pick her up in couple of minutes, but you have to establish some level of comfort.

Hope this helped. Keep approaching

I have horrible texting game also. I try not to text girls just phone them. Would help a lot of dudes if someone posts a texting game 101 guide

If anyone knows a texting 101 guide please post a link in this topic, Im in dire need of texting game, but have over texted a girl currently and im just gonna man up and call her tonight, tell her I get bored with lame texting shit, but if I develop some sweet texting game for preperations of the next girl it would be great!