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Hi guys, i'm currently in highschool and its my first yr at this school. I tried to join other ppls social circle but they dont seem to be welcoming. I slowly kinda formed my own social group and most of them were girls. I was focuing on being popular at school and welcomed by people. ANY SUGEESTION,IDEAS, or EXPERIENCES WOULD BE NICE.
Sounds good so far man! Keep building that current group. That's how it is in the real world too. If don't have friends, you start to make them and bring them into your world. You can do this same thing in highschool. It's a little tougher, but it can be done. Some other notes:
-As much as being popular is important, I swear to you being good at school is much more, so no matter what do your best at school. Why? Because the smarter you are, the better access to more things you will have when you're older (more people, more women, better jobs, more money, etc)
-Don't be scared to show your intentions or flirt with girls you are interested in, sometimes that's enough to get a girl's attention and get her into you
-Be nice to everyone, no matter what. The real "popular" kids are liked by all, not just friends with "good looking" kids or jocks
Hope that helps
Thank you very much. So i asked some of my close friends at school and they said i am kinda intimidating and the way i present myself and look are scaring them, so it made it hard to be liked by other people becuase i am scary? Some people said i am kinda goodlike or like a model but does it project myself as hard to approach becuase ,,,it is just that feeling. Actually one of my friend said she felt uneasy around before she met me and i kinda give out a "bad boy" aura. I wanna know if i can solve these problems or just keep it as my style.
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go watch LAHWF on youtube, I do the stuff he does and over a month i got very well known.
he does stuff like
loudly complimenting ppl
randomly holding hands
asking for food
Im an artist so I also took advantage of my skill and draw random girls and write my name in it which is POY
Just do these pranks and make people happy bring a smile in their face, give give give.
dont do it for the popularity, do it to make people smile and youll succeed way easier.
do these things every day every week everywhere in the school and in a month, youll have high social value and have a good reputation at the start.
Im about to graduate, and this was the advice I should have gotten when entering highschool for the first time. your a very lucky lucky person having this advice. youll be a very very happy person if you take it and use it.
Thank you, they are useful!! Just one question, ppl at school said i am intimidating and kinda scaring people. If i do this, would they even getting more freaked out, like ppl might actually think i am mentally crazy.
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