Hello gents,

Met this chick 8/10 2 weeks ago on public transpor. Teased her for having long legs and not fitting in allocated space. Got number.

Week later we went on date on Sunday. Few beers, 3 different bars, swings, non-stop conversation, some kissing. At the end she suggested we meet in 1 week on Friday and said "so far so good, you just passed". Negging me, I figure.

BUT she rain-checked date on Friday morning, did not provide alternative.

Me, Friday, 1.30pm: "Wow wow look at you little miss popular:P All good have a good night talk to you next week"

Me, Saturday, 5.15 am [Pretty high and twisted after big night]: "Its one of them beautiful mornings when the sky etc etc etc" (Very poetic txt depicting my drug-enhanced vision of the beautiful morning.)

Her, Saturday 12.15 pm: "That sounds amazing. What were you doing up? I was sleeping like a baby. What do you have planned for today?"

Me, Saturday 1.30 pm: "Was still up from the party lol. Sleeping like a baby huh that sounds nice and cuddly. About to take a nap myself then go to the beach. Hows the show?"

She doesn't text back until today.

Her, Sunday 4.45 pm: "Yesterday was awesome very exhausting hoping to have an early one. Did you have a good night"""

Now, this girl is really cool and i don't want her to get the vibe that I'm just playing her to get in her pants. But, should I freeze out for not responding sooner, or should I text her back tonight or tomorrow? I want to show her I'm legitimate and nice enough, but chilled out and ready to take it easy. It's one of those instances where I feel like being open but I'm afraid it will fire back at me if I just give it to her on a plate and act too nice.

Look forward to your opinions. Thank you.

You really quite like her? Be prepared to walk away. If your smitten, she'll eat you alive and spit you out.

She has done something you didnt like, she cancelled your date after already agreeing to it. Its ok to be annoyed, but I wouldnt make a massive fuss to her. If you are free and come running when she clicks her fingers you lose value, she know she owns you, your wrapped around her little finger.

You need to be in demand, or blag it, do you know her rough diary? Like she is usually free on fridays?

You could text her, or ring her (has more value imo) say your busy monday doing X, busy tuesday doing Y, weds doing Z... you get the idea, be honest with your real plans, assuming you have some, maybe also say your going for a drink with your friend "sarah" on one night your actually doing nothing. just to make yourself sound busier, and give a false pre selection..she doesnt know your lying. But say your free on the day you think she is most likely to be free, or two days...

If she cannot fit into your schedule, don't change yours, dont change your real plans, or your "date" with "sarah". Your giving her to much value if you do that.

Your the prize at the end of the day! If you bend to her wills, your just another guy at the end of the day.

In terms of time frame, I might wait till tomorrow to "punish" her a little for not texting you back.

You really quite like her? Be prepared to walk away. If your smitten, she'll eat you alive and spit you out.
Words of wisdom.

Progress report:

Exchanged some texts over the next couple of days. Asked about each other scheduled. Phone call would have a lot more useful for this, for sure. Then I ended the exchange, wished her a good couple of days at the family farm house. She responded asking "Might be a possibility of a sneaky drink on Friday?"

I have vague plans to catch up with a friend this Fri or Sat, and I don't want to be eating out of her hand (as you said) so I'm contemplating following options:
a. Meet her for an early drink/some food and call it quits early.
or
b. Tell her I already have plans and suggest Saturday or Sunday.
or
c. Meet her for drink, if she doesn't actually have any other plans pretend my friend cancelled and go for F close

Good to have options

Thanks for your opinions

Tell her that your buddy wants to meet some girls at some bar, so you will probably not be able to make to hang out with her. Then text her later on and be like "Omg, this stupid girl my friend is talking to has hair sprayed curled bangs that are like 6 inches tall, straight from the 80s! I need to get out of here quick!" Then ask what she is doing later and try to arrange a meet up.

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Love it!!! Great idea!!!