So I've been out a couple of times to clubs and stuff and slowly getting my confidence up by just saying "Hi how are you"? to some girls and most of the time I get a response. If I get shut down i just say nice meeting you and walk off. The problem Is I build good rapport but I just don't know when to make the move to kiss.

Last night I was in a club and there was a girl dancing with her friend and her friend was hooking up with some dude and this girl looked bored so I thought I'd make a move. We danced a little and I said to her "Wouldn't you like to be doing that right now?" I don't know whether she was shy or uninterested but she kind of ignored me and didn't really say anything just kept dancing. What could I have done in this situation?

Most of the time I talk to girls we either exchange numbers and go our separate ways but I want to start actually kissing girls in clubs and trying to go further than just talking and moving on.

Cheers

k-closing at clubs is SOO easy. Seriously

You want to know the secret??

Stop being a little bitch, and go in for the kiss.

Voila, you can thank me later once you stop being a little chode.

Righto mate calm down. Wasn't the help I was looking for but thanks.

He's right. You don't ask the girl for permission to kiss her or ask if she wants to do what others are doing. You simply do what YOU want as an alpha male in your world. If you do things right, you should be getting some ioi's before you kiss her anyway, which is the girl's way of saying "It's okay if you want to kiss me." When you ask permission it comes across as so AFC. To the girl it's like you are saying "Would you ever kiss a guy who is a pussy?" How do you expect her to react in that instance? Just kiss her bro!

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