This is my first post on the website and i thought i'd begin with my most recent encounter. In most fields of pick up i'd like to say that i'm quite confident and can act fearlessly under any challenge that arises. However, last night while at a friends house with a considerable number of people around that I hadn't met before. There was one little number that caught my attention. She was the only one that wasn't fixed on every word that came from my mouth...

So...when a challenge arises, I guess at times it becomes first priority. Therefore, I went about trying my best to persuade this ice queen to melt in to my arms if you will. By the end of the night i had her number and what not, but at one point...she played her cards, pocket rockets. She knocked me offguard by doing a shit test...I had been using some anchoring techniques with her, but all of a sudden, infront of a group of people, she announced "err...you don't have to touch me!"..I panicked! I had no reply...well no reply that wouldn't end in me leaving the room! (i.e "maybe i wanted to?")

If anyone has any information or suggestion on a situation like this, it would be much appreciated.


libertine.

Hey Libertine, welcome!
I like your shit man, but thts a tuffy, especially if ur doin kino an she jus blurts tht out....u cud jus neg her sayin tht she must hav not been hugged enuf as a kid, or been hugged too much...play on that aspect....it's a start...V

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Tis better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to open ones mouth and remove all doubt.

I considered a neg - but i thought, once she's in the frame of mind of "ew, who is this creep?!" ....See the other thing to notice was she didn't take well to negs, even the most harmless ones! She had this facade that was difficult to contend with. Any comment made to her, her response would always be something that involved "I don't care.", which isn't the most encouraging of replies i must say!

The funny thing was, she had no problem making a comment to anyonelse! It was simply so frustrating to counter - Something I must add tho, as I just found out she has a boyfriend. Yet..he wasn't there, and her mind i'm sure was on other things. She can flirt a little if she liked! sadly...not.

Libertine.

"err...so this is how a marriage would end up being with you?" or "err...You didn't complain last night? (cutt her off if she says BS)"