Ok, I know I am a good looking guy. I have been complemented on my looks many of times without me mentioning anything about my looks.

However, there is an internal issue. I get very bad performance anxiety and it has caused me to lose several girls. It's to the point where I got pills from GNC where I don't have that problem. Except now the issue is for the first round I cum to fast but after that I'm golden. (seems like I just can't win.) There is a lot more to this story but I feel this has a lot to do with it.

Moving on...So I have become really good friends with a girl. (I only like as a friend) She always talks about guys with big dicks and she makes fun of guys with small dicks. I didn't mind at first because nothing I can do about my situation. I am only 6 and a half inches. The part that bothers me is she knows quite a few of the people I know and she tells me how big they are. She told me about a guy that I used to hate because he fucked around with my now ex right after me and her broke up and apparently hes in the 9s. Turns out a lot of people I know are in the 8 and above range.

There is this girl at my work that is absolutely gorgeous to the point that I become instantly retarded around her. It's complete bullshit. Well anyways the girl I am friends with knows her and she told me about a guy she hooked up with that I know. This kid is the biggest or so I thought dork known to mankind. The kid has fucking a bowl haircut and buckteeth. The dude just looks like an idiot. So I was completely floored when I found this out. Almost to the point of rage. I couldn't understand why she would want him. To top it off the kid cheated on his girlfriend with her, which surprised me even more that he has a girlfriend!

So I asked my friend how in the flying fuck this was even possible. She told me that this kid is well endowed (in the 8s) he brags about it and is very in your face sexual. Now I know being sexual can turn a girl onto you even if you look like a fuckin neanderthal! But seriously wtf. The kid is obviously cocky and has the right to be because he has a club and isn't afraid of using it.

I am so tired of people telling me I am attractive and they don't understand why I don't have a girlfriend. (No people aren't being nice because girls will ask me why I am single. They're usually surprised) So like I said I know I'm not a bad looking guy and these girls don't say it out of pity.

I just don't know what to do. I know I can lay pipe well because I have in the past. However, I am just fucked up because I am not well endowed and it's hard for me to be overtly sexual. Now that I found out that every fucking guy around the area I live walks around with a damn baseball bat between their legs (or so it seems) I feel even more inferior.

What can I do? My anxiety has me by the balls, and my self esteem is going to shit because I am afraid to be sexual with girls. I can't brag about my penis like some of these guys do. Seriously I found out that is some of their game plans. They just brag about it and eventually just show it and they pull bitches.

What am I supposed to do? I'm tired of missing out on pretty women. At the same time I just feel like a sexy ass girl won't want me because my situation. It makes it hard for me to even talk to girls.

Please anyone with advice. Sorry for making such a large post.

you have low self esteem even though girls are praising your looks?

DONT! there are guys that look like shit and have amazing game.
you have no excuse.
take advantage of your gifted face and use it to the fullest.

and dont brag for sure, but there are hundreds of tactics and strategy you could pull off easily.

only insecure people or alpha wannabes brag because they are subconsciously VALIDATING themselves to the people.

I personally dont try to be a follower of anything and just live my life the way i want to live it doing the sillyest things and not caring about the negative while absorbing all the good and giving out good.

go compliment people, make them feel nice about themselves, give people high 5, make them feel special and youll get that confidence in you cuz it worked in me.

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Hmm, I guess I will have to try that. Tired of missing out on cute girls because my shitty esteem :/

The big penis thing is a myth, and it's something that women use to try to belittle men. There was this woman on POF years ago who would get on the forum and start threads about all the guys she's been with, and how they all had 9 inch penises or longer. She was of course old AND ugly. But any guy who read that shit would feel bad if his penis was average size, which was the whole point of her LYING and writing posts like that.

If some girl starts talking about how a guy better have a large penis that is "x" amount of inches, just say "That's actually the same size as me." The only way she could prove you are lying is if she is getting ready to sleep with you, and by that point it won't matter.

Most girls don't focus on dick size or have a problem with smaller guys, therefore you shouldn't focus on girls who do. Heck, you shouldn't focus on any one girl anyways!

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