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 Post subject: Neediness issue
PostPosted: Fri Nov 30, 2012 12:59 pm 
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I've been trying to figure this out for a while.

I don't like to walk alone or just be alone cause I think that's DLV. Is it okay to just chill by yourself?

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 Post subject: Re: Neediness issue
PostPosted: Fri Nov 30, 2012 1:16 pm 
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you should be a bit more specific! but Im assuming you mean when youre out?

yea I always like to step out for a smoke and sometimes its alone.

This is usually when I meet the most girls, because Im alone and it makes me wanna talk to someone.

absolutely nothing wrong with chilling alone.

But too much of it isnt such a good idea in many environments.

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 Post subject: Re: Neediness issue
PostPosted: Fri Nov 30, 2012 1:41 pm 
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Being a loner is almost never a good thing because it makes you seem like you don't fit in. That's why you want to be what's called "social proof". This means that people enjoy your company and you are the center of attention. I like to sarge with wings for this very reason. If you go somewhere alone then you should introduce yourself, open sets, and get to socializing.

I'm used to being alone, so it doesn't bother me. But if I'm solo sarging I don't want it to seem like I'm walking around patroling the area like a shark in water. I use my cellphone to make it seem like I'm engaged in something and texting or talking to somebody. If they ask if I'm alone I'll say my friend just left or I'm planning on meeting someone. Remember, the first thing a girl thinks when she meets you is literally: "Is this guy weird? Could he be a serial killer?" That is why social proofing is so important. It establishes an initial level of trust and comfort with the women you meet.

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