| I feel like kind of an expert in this area. For some unknown reason I've had as much sex standing up in closets, stairwells, bathroom and even roof tops as I have in beds/on couches. Just always seems to work out that way.
I'd still say based on situation push for her place as a default. Though when gaming personally I feel like it's awlays 50/50 they either have a boyfriend or some kind of sitaution where they don't want whoever they live with (roomate/other) to know they are hooking up randomly so a very reluctant or insistant girl who wants to avoid her place is also usually a good indicator you've got yourself a one time deal.
As for the public places thing, just think hide and seek, only you and your date are "IT" and everyone else (including the cops) are the other kids. I tend to wait at least until there is some heavy making out and groping before I even consider it. You've got to get the girl REALLY turned on first, or she'll be thinking about comfort and playing her usual hard to get games. The best tip for that is once you go in for the first kiss turn up the machissimo 10000% and keep it there except for brief breaks for air and to pull her out of LMR. Think romantic chick flick ending after a whole movie of trying to get it on but being pushed apart and then SLAM happy ending with fiery passion filled explosion. Don't hesitate and don't look for acceptance, go until you are stopped.
Now for location. After she's well primed and ready to throw caution to the wind because Niagra Falls is jealous of her current situation, I usually start by just stopping for a moment and looking into her eyes with a devilish grin. This 99.999999% of the time sparks her response of "what????!!!???" of which your answer is ALWAYS "never mind" then go to kiss her again and stop your self, shake your head and then go in for more kissing. next time you stop for air, do that again and basically she will demand you tell her what you are thinking. Then you just look over your shoulder and around like your looking for something and drop the idea on her. "I was just thinking, we need to find somewhere... NOW!"
I'd say about 80% of girls at that point know exactly what you are hinting at and very much like it. 10% will suddently get bashful in which case you can re-pressure for their place and sometimes get a cave in on that. The other 10% will just keep avoiding the subject and continue to make out and or grope in the current location until you get bored and thats that - in that situation girls don't say "no" they just don't say "yes" either.
You can do the back of the car thing, but honestly unless you and her are both under 21, it's pretty damn tacky. Prior to graduating college, i'd say back seat hookups were regular, after... I think maybe a few dozen ever since, and mostly on long road trips or when absolutely no other options were available. It makes girls feel cheap and immature, they usually don't think well of it after.
Best places in my exeprience are: Utility closets, freight elevators, out of the way stair wells, closed offices, handicapped bathrooms, emergency exit areas, parking garages, roof tops and the like. Basically the places where people either walk past and don't think about, or aren't looking around when they do.
My personal favorite was a back access doorway on the museum tour at Castle Loma in Toronto, in a pretty well travelled area (out of sight though). Yeah that's right in a castle.... LMAO had to pat myself on the back for that one.
Good luck.
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I was asking more about anything specific I should keep in mind when isolating to a public place... lol
