Last night, I had an incredibly fun night out. My buddy is leaving for college, across the country so we had a going away/birthday party for him. We went all out:
- Stretch hummer limo packed with 19 people
- Dinner at the best Hibachi restaurant in town
- Hit the club afterwards
I noticed a lot of very interesting things throughout the night, and vibing was one of them. The second the group got together, we were off the walls. Everyone was in a fantastic mood, and we were literally out of control. The whole ride over people were sticking out of the moon-roof and windows acting like complete jackasses. We got to the Hibachi restaurant, caused a huge ruckus and almost got kicked out until they saw our bill. At which point we got super service for the rest of the evening. The whole restaurant was focused around the mayhem going on at our table. I would have seriously hated to be a part of another group. We drop a G on dinner alone, then pack back into the limo to head to the club. As we're driving through Philly, we're continuing the intense chaos of the night, recruiting women to meet us at the club as we rode by.
We pull up, bust out of the limo and see this line that is wrapped around the block. Walk strait up to the bouncers and hand him a wad of cash, and are let right in front everyone. (ASSHOLES!) Now we're in the club, and this is where I noticed the magnitude and importance of vibing off of good company. We split up and bum-rushed the dance-floor, the club was absolutely packed (even if it wasn't you should do the same), while jumping into and over people we make our way to the dead center of the floor. It must have been 6 of us in my group, we find a group of equal number of girls in no time, hop into the circle with them and dance our asses off. Before we know it, the floor is centered around us, I see my buddy a few feet over picking his chick up, she's laughing her ass off, another one of my buddies is pinned against the wall behind the group fat chick, we all make light of it and continue the ruckus. Another one of my buddies is already swapping spit with one of the girls, and as I see him I feel a hand grab my ass. I look behind and there are two gorgeous girls just smiling at me, I laugh at them and wave my finger as to say, "No! No!". Turning back around the girl I was dancing with bites my shoulder, gives me this naughty look and slips my hand onto her naughties. I play nice, then leave her a few minutes later because now the girls behind me are pulling on my belt. I dance next to them for a few minutes, like a total jackass. Another member of my group comes over, a big guy, male-stripper. We are literally just clowning everyone, he's dancing behind thugs and tough-guys making them all uncomfortable, while I mock a few people trying to 'Crip-walk' with my far superior skills .
These two girls are now really into us, our energy level was so high it was absurd. I couldn't turn around in the club without running into someone I either came with or knew. I take the one I was interested in and pick her up and haul her over to the corner, my buddy does likewise. I sit down, throw her on my lap and she proceeds to give me close to one of the best lapdances I've ever had. One of my buddies comes over (funny kid) and sits down right next to me, talking to me like she's not even there. The girl notices I'm not paying attention to her really, as I'm drinking a water he just handed me. She grabs it out of my hand, and proceeds to shake it all over herself and I. At which point I'm in shock because the water was ice-cold, my buddy cracks up and leaves again. The girl now begins to bite my ear and kiss my neck and shoulders, she's really into me at this point. I look over and my stripper friend over there is a few steps ahead of me, giving the girl a lapdance. I get up and throw her next to her friend, and we both get up and outrageously dance for these girls. They couldn't stop laughing, it was hysterical, so many people were looking at us. But the beauty was we were vibing off each others and the groups energy (and the feisty girls energy too) so much that it didn't matter who thought what about us, we were legitimately having more fun than anyone in the club. I have to run to the bathroom so I book out of there, telling the girl I'll catch her later.
After reconnecting with some members of my group (2 of the females) I begin to dance with both of them, sandwiching me. At this point I'm sweat-soaked, wearing half the clothes I came with, and fired up for more. The two girls leave and I'm alone for a few minutes, I spot a very cute girl dancing with this big douchebag, she gives me a look and lips to me "HELP!". I look at her, not moving, and just crack up. With one finger I wave her over, the second I do she basically runs from the guy she's dancing with over to me, and begins. (wow, that was easy) Now this little girl could dance, she was all over the floor, ass going this way and that, dropping down and around, putting her legs up on me against the wall. Now again, the attention is drawn to where I am, cause I can keep up with her, and I imagine it looks pretty amusing because the dancing was....dirty to say the least.
5 of my friends come over, all with girls and we explode with energy again. This continues to happen throughout the night, I wind up hooking back up with the girl from the 2-set, apparently she had thought I was coming back and had been waiting for me! (male-stripper kept her around, knowing how to be a good wing)
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Okay, so what was the point of this little story.
VIBING!
I left the club with a GORGEOUS girl, and throughout the night, I had said maybe 20 words to her. I didn't even know her name as she clung to me leaving the club into the cold air. I had done everything I needed to do, naturally, while just having a good time. No stories, no routines, no bullshit, no gimmicks, just a GREAT TIME. Any value this woman had seen in me, was all assumed (see Romeo's post). She knew the following things about me, I was fun, high-energy, a clown, a good dancer, comfortable and confident with myself and my body, a popular guy, a strong guy (club was packed so you gotta keep the elbows up pushing motherfuckers back), and much more. I don't think she even knew my name either at the time. Now whether or not we were talking is not really important, vibing from you're group will help you in either situation.
Next time you go out, remember the following:
1) Choose your mates wisely, do not go out with low-energy people, a.k.a downers.
2) Vibing is natural, so others will do it as well. With this is mind, GO NUTS! They will feed off of your energy just as you will feed off of theirs. (those outside of your group will do it as well!)
3) Attitude is half of the battle, keep yours both in check and on point.
4) The more the merrier. Encourage different groups of friends to all come out, encourage old friends to come back out, merge new groups of people at the venue. The more you put in the equation, the more interesting your outcome will be.
5) Meth is the man. (seriously, if you don't know, you betta ask somebody!)
Hope this helps, please discuss!
PEACE. LOVE. AND FRESHLY CUT PINEAPPLE!
Meth the Maniac
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