hey wats up,im 17 well id describe myself as your typical nice afc course thats goin 2 change ,ye im new to the game and wel my main problems would be

r im always put in2 the LJBF zone,

aproaching a girl id get realy anxious,

no confidence in myself

im like a doormat everybody can walk all over me,i find it hard to stand up for myself,people dont respect me evan if i try to do so i just get shot down, if sum1 made a lame ass comment bout me that i didn like id always be the nice guy ye know and pertend to laugh it of.it realy is geting anoying and it puts me in a shit ass mood im sick of bein walked on

my social skils are none to be proud of,i cant hold a good conversation evan when it comes to my friends nyway im trna soak up as as much infromation as possible just got the mystery method and im just wonderin is there any other material that wud help thanks.

Hey Darius, welcome!

You've got youth on your side - plenty of time to change. Just stick around here and I'm sure you'll change drastically.

I'd recommend buying The Game by Neil Strauss, then buy The Rules Of The Game by Neil Strauss. The latter gives you missions every day that you wish to play, and will probably be really good for you, but you should read The Game first.

If you let me know your e-mail address I'll e-mail you something you'll find very useful.

Welcome to the board darius101.

I second Cephalon's recommendation of The Game. Rather than buying Rules of The Game you can go to http://darkwing.4shared.com/ and download the StyleLife challenge, which Style ran in the summer of 2006.

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Well, my friend, it seems to me that you have to start by becoming an alpha. Read the book "How to be an alpha male - Alexander, John" and apply what you see there step by step. Start by changing the way you see yourself. You have to work on your inner game first. See how confidence feels, have a taste of that and then worry about meeting new people and sarging. If you don't consider yourself to be a strong and interesting person then no one else will. Do something to improve yourself everyday. Don't waste time thinking that you have your life ahead.

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What you think and what you feel and what manifests is always a match.

Let the chips fall where they may.

I was with you too darius. Do something every day out of the ordinary. Become a different person than what you are.
I still am changing myself and trying to find some stuff that works for me. But for me I did things differently. I worked out more instead of playing games online. I went out to a book store instead of wasting time on the internet. I tried to change myself and I saw an improvement.

Any advise I will take as well because Im still in the process of becoming a brand new me.

Work on your inner game, I've been doing so for about the past 3 months, and it does work! look for methusala's post its excellent