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| optomis | PostPosted: Mon Nov 26, 2012 1:14 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Nov 21, 2012 12:17 am Posts: 13 Location: Dallas | | I asked this girl to tell me whats interesting about her, what makes different from other girls; probably too early before building enough report and comfort.i have been talking to her for couple days pulled a couple rutines,talked to her about her parents,childhood,sports,played some games with her won some bets with her got some pretty funny pics of her out the of bets. i had her texting me out of the blue telling me im silly and she was been responding well, now...
She hasnt talked to me since i asked this lame question,a solid day.
so this morning i sent this to her:
longlivtheking
11/25/2012 9:51:44 AM
It's the most interesting girl in the world!
Her spelling is impeccable... even in the most awkward of moments!
She can drink like a fish...while fishing for men... on the Internet.
Her vast knowledge of sports...leads to Not much conversation!
She is ... the most interesting girl on pof!
She doesn't always drink beer,.. but when she does its to her exes!
Cheers My Friend
No response
a few hours later i sent; I got 96 likes on this on facebook!
She replies; Impressive..... and logs off.
what can I do to over came this hurtal? What is my time frame/ what do i say?
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| Fly_Swatter | PostPosted: Mon Nov 26, 2012 2:44 am | |
| Offline | | Dedicated Member |  | Joined: Wed Nov 21, 2012 8:29 pm Posts: 708 Location: Antarctica | | Uh, how do you get 96 likes on FB for that crap?
Anyway, no biggie. It's easy... Freeze out. She gave you a shitty compliment for some decent hard work. So you let her come back to you. Don't say anything. This is your way of saying your hardwork will not go underappreciated. Understood? _________________ Before she can respect you, you need to respect yourself.
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| optomis | PostPosted: Tue Nov 27, 2012 4:20 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Nov 21, 2012 12:17 am Posts: 13 Location: Dallas | | Update:
Me:Pick a number 1-20...obviously don't tell me what it is
Her:Okay
Me:Double it
Her: ok
Me:Add 4 to it
Her:Then?
Me:Divide it by two
Her:Ok next
Me:Subtract your original number
Her:Then
Me:Got it
Her:Yes
Me:Now screw off!
Her:Really?! Jerk!
Me:Jk your # is two
Her:All the answers see two! Where do you come up with this shit!
Me:I used to ride the short bus
Her:Apparently
Her:Was your name on your helmet?
Her:Lol
Her:So your post on fb with all the likes....was that just another one of your random quotes or was it for someone
Me:I made it for you
Her:So my vast knowledge of sports leads to not much conversation hmmmm
Me:Believe it!
Her:That's not a good compliment...what do you mean by that
Me:How do you interpret it? Humor me
Her:Really are you being a smart ass! I took it as I know a lot about it so that leaves us with nothing to talk about like I'm boring ehhh whatever
Me:Do you need me to confirm that it is actually a compliment?
Her:Yes please
Me:I've got to eat...ill talk to you later
What do you think is the ball back in my court?have turn this around a little?
What should I do now? What should I say?
Help me out guys!!!
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| charblad | PostPosted: Tue Nov 27, 2012 4:43 am | |
| Offline | | Dedicated Member |  | Joined: Thu May 26, 2011 3:12 am Posts: 733 Location: Earth of course | | Depends, we can't tell you what to do if you don't tell us what you want
Fbuddy? Girlfriend? One night stand? Text buddy?
Right now you're her text buddy, if you want a girlfriend meet her in person, fbuddy/on night - invite her to your place, text buddy? Keep going like you are now, keep texting her and don't escalate _________________ To game at your best you have to be willing to do your worst.
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| Fly_Swatter | PostPosted: Tue Nov 27, 2012 9:02 am | |
| Offline | | Dedicated Member |  | Joined: Wed Nov 21, 2012 8:29 pm Posts: 708 Location: Antarctica | | Me:Do you need me to confirm that it is actually a compliment?
Her:Yes please
Me:I've got to eat...ill talk to you later
LMFAO... If you're going to cut it there, at least give her a time frame as to when you'll get back to her... Now she thinks you're just either weird or an asshole for leaving her hanging like that.
And no it wasn't a fucking compliment... Which is okay because you don't need to shower her with such crap. But you can't change your answer now. If she brings it up again say something like "It's a compliment in my books. Now stfu and accept it."
Don't even think about asking her out. You still need to build rapport and a connection which you haven't done at all yet. _________________ Before she can respect you, you need to respect yourself.
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