This year has been so crappy!

I started the year GREAT. I was in good shape, my pick up skills were on point, and I was just feeling great all around. As the year went on my best friend/wing man had a kid, my other wing man decided to finally settle down, so I decided to just chill and find ways to improve myself in other aspects of my life and that is when EVERYTHING went down hill. I have no idea how it happened but I went from being in good shape to a fat bastard, I lost all my pick up skills, my confidence is a MESS! Instead of making myself better I worsen myself. I am not myself anymore. I went out for this thanksgiving weekend and I was not able to approach a single female on my own. My mind was saying, "GO!!" but my damn body just wouldn't move. I try to keep a positive attitude, but It's hard! The only positive are my dogs and I've gotten some #'s because of them but even that ain't working anymore. I have completely lost myself and I don't know how to rediscover myself. IDK why I am writing this, maybe someone out there has gone through something like this and can relate. I just need some words of wisdom and encouragement from you wise men!

Thanks Guys!