hello guys.
i have a GF for 7months. from the start of relationship everything was perfect.
we never had a fight or something like that....soo we decided to get engaged...and plan a life together.
things are still working between us, but she became to close with her best MALE friend who is also my friend..
I know that they are only close friends from way back and that she won't cheat me....but when i see them together, joking and talking
somethimes touching, i got really mad and i can't stand that....
soo few days ago, i had to say something to mi GF about that and we got a litlle fight....
i told her that i feel like a fool when she's with him and i'm sitting beside..
she said that i'm too jealous and if i don't calm down she won't hold too much with me....

i have a big problem now.... and don't know what to do....i just can't calm down and sit beside like nothing is hapening...
should i make her jealous or what?
if someone can help mi with advice or something i would be really grateful...

Whenever they do stupid shit like that just act like you don't give a fuck, even if you do. As soon as you get overprotective and clingy its game over son

Just reply with same fire if u want, say that your ex contacted u also, that your female friends wants to know if u are free tonight for party at their place.

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I also forgot to say that i screwed myself practically from the start....
i made her my number one....in everything....
i stoped seeing my other friends because of her....
and now she's holding me tight....

is there any way i can now change that? or is too late?

Yes you can change that! Be confidant an independent. Have a purpose/direction that's more important than the relationship. If you know where you're going and what your highest priority is, the relationship can never take over.

Don’t be too available – Don’t answer every call from her. If you are busy in the moment, she can wait. Show her that you have other things to do and other people to meet with. Yes, you can tell her that you are busy even if you’re not. But the better option is really to have hobbies and interesting things to do.
Meet other women – A great way to not be needy is just to have other women and other options in your life. Unless you are already in a relationship, you can date several women at a time.
React to her moves – Neediness is a relative thing. If a woman tells you that she loves you, you can say that too. But if she doesn't answer your calls, and mistreats you, so do the same. Don’t show that you want her more than she wants you.

7 months is NOT a long time, If you think about it for a second, how can a man be completely in love with a woman that he’s just started to know? And even if you fucked her a few times, you hardly even know her.

That’s exactly what women think about needy men. “He doesn't even know me… Why is he up my ass all the time? Am I the only thing he has going on? He must be some loser”.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.