Hey guys,

I'm 21 years old living in San Diego, a perfect place to sarge. I came across the PUA community about a month and a half ago, after having the "girl of my dreams" vanish from my life without a word. She was incredible and I blamed myself for failing as a man to give her what she needed to stay with me. Ever since then I've been inspired and motivated incredibly by this newly found knowledge and the promise to myself that when I found the next "girl of my dreams", I would be prepared to handle the situation. As I'm new to PUA I can't say that I have any particular method that I prefer; I'm open minded to anything at the moment, but I believe the best technique would be to have a variety of methods at my disposal for every situation. That being said, Neil Strauss was the first PUA I studied, followed by Adam Lyons, Tyler Durden and a variety of other people who I can't recall. I'm passionate about a lot of things. I spend a lot of time doing sports (soccer, rock climbing, mountain biking, surfing, swimming, running, sailing) and I'm about to join a martial arts gym as soon as I'm in a better financial situation. I love to read, especially things like sociology, history, psychology, self-improvement, and political discourse. Obsessed with the Cuban Revolution and the influential people from that time period, my ultimate motivation for the longest time was exactly that, Revolution. I enjoy writing very much, I find it to be a powerful, stimulating outlet and I have recently decided I will pursue this hobby for the rest of my life. Rugged backpacking is my favorite mode of life: sleeping in a tent every night, meeting new people from all walks of life, waking up in strange places, stimulated by new experiences constantly and forever free from the mundane, redundant lifestyle that most people accept. Anyway, my goal is to become a guy all girls want to be with, to have plenty of options available to me and rid myself of any irrational fears that hold me back. Self-development is essential for a human being who strives for greatness, and I will not conform to anything except the best the world has to offer. I want an amazing girl by my side, intelligent, VERY attractive, passionate and down to earth who isn't afraid of trying new things and taking risks. I won't settle for anything less. In the end, my ultimate goal is to perfect myself as a human being, and the information I've come across in the PUA community is too powerful and beneficial to neglect. I'm excited for what this journey I've embarked upon will teach me.
Thanks for taking the time to read this!

I'm looking for these skills too. I'm a girl though. I read someone's signature here.. It said something like "Ask the fisherman, not the fish, how to catch the fish." So I'm here to learn as well, keeping an open mind.

props to the reference to william ernest henley btw

Having a good skills in achieving a good knowledge in experiencing the best creativity that will hold the interest to keep it more achieving to uphold the level of skills.