| Hey guys, first post so please bear with me.
So originally this girl I met from a get together at a bonfire at a beach, I was really in a PUA mindset back then and did a routine set to get her number (confidently approached her and her friends, introduced myself, gave a time frame I had to go back to my friends but I would love it if I could have her number). Then we met up shortly afterwards, with her texting me to meet up. We did meet up that night and we went into some hard making out where she jumped on top of me, it seemed like she was the initator almost in all of that. That night I was smooth and I knew I was, and I definitely came across as a cocky fuck because I knew I was going for that too.
However, last night we had a day 3 where we went downtown and saw a movie, I was definitely out of my game and I feel like I've been out of it for a while. Mistakes I would catch myself making I didn't even catch, and we had a lot of awkward silences which I can only blame myself for. We ended up making out soon afterwards the movie at a nice location, strolled around downtown for a bit and I invited her back to my place for cuddling and a movie, which she agreed to. I'm thinking "wow even with my shit game somehow she agreed to this", so we come back to my room and we choose a movie together, and we cuddle down on the bed and watch it. I, for some retarded fucking reason, start falling asleep and tell her that I'm about to. She says, if you're going to fall asleep I'm just going to go back to my room to which I reply no, stay and pull her into a deep kiss. We continue kissing for a bit, but I had to go open the door for one of my room mates' friends. When I came back she says that she was tired and thought that she should be heading home, to which I replied yeah if you want to do that go for it, even though I'd like you to stay the night. So we head downstairs, as I walk her out I attempt to kiss her good night on the lips, but she kind of moved a bit so that it was a kiss on the side of the lips?
Anyways, I just feel that I completely changed my game up from before, and it might have been really weak compared to how it was the first time. As well, this time around I paid for the movie tickets, and became a supplicator, all of which are well known AFC traits.
I usually don't even post on these forums I just read other people's field reports but I need a slap in the face to wake me up from being a dumbass. Any advice/criticism is appreciated, and be as critical as you need to be.
Thanks guys
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