i met that gal 'X' for he first time in strabucks with a friend of mine 'Y' who ivited me to sit with them...and i did....after talking to her she starts giving me IOIs (ex.re-opening conv. strings, she actually asked me if i `m the kind of guy that will be dominated in bed)...neway, 'Y' calls me the next day when she wakes up and we plan to go to a movie...i flaked out...the next day she asks me to come to that bar where every one is chilling...i went...i find 'X' (the target) we started talking...we kept on talking for about 2 hrs..sharing stories...Kino...she was enjoying the talk...i Suddenly have a Mind Block...n i froze n wasnt able to joke like i used to...so i snap out of the one-on-one n i start socializing with everyone....not paying her any attention...(this was toward the end of the night)....all of us keep talking...then she have to get her jacket from the car of the guy that they came with..i went with her as the guy is leaving and i ddnt want her to walk alone in the dark (1.is that a mistake/test???)...she ddnt walk next to me...she was 2 steps ahead but not nxt to the other guy either...when i saw that i lingered in the bk and ddnt catch up with her...so we go bk inside and i feel like her whole phsyci changed...we walk in n we find every one leaving...after the belongings are gathered...we all walk outside to say bye...not even a kiss on a cheek....
i know i should have at least exchanged #s...which i ddnt
but if wanted to get hold of she knows how to (or am i asking for too much)??
Qs:
2. How do i get rid of that mind block when it come...this thing is crippeling(its like i lose confidence)
3.do i take her not kissing goodbye as IOD or part of the game or wat...i`m askin for me to learn not because i like her

i know this situations.. happend to mi just some times...
dont know why..

if xou receive a reply it wil help me, too

If you run routines, just take your cellphone and put in some keywords to help you remember your routines, which connect with what the best, that kinda deal. A little cheat-sheat. Midroutine if youre not sure what to follow up with or how the routine went, just put up a finger like "hold on", check your cell, read the stuff, and go "where was i.. oh yeah.." and follow through.

No idea what her behaviour meant, since i dont really know exactly how it went down. Could be sublte things like tonality during a key sentence, body language, intensity, energylevel, you name it.

Actually the Cheat-Sheet on ur phone to remember the routine is an amazing idea...i`ll give that a shot...thanx Slai

and if this will make the answer any easier to my pervious Qs:
regarding Q 1--->was this a compliance test from her...or shoul;d have i acted the way i did and went with her (gentelman)???

Yeah, Slai's cheat sheet idea is genius.

I think I'm going to do that.
Not necessarily for routines...
but if I'm blanking out on things to talk about, BAM.
*checks phone for "text message"*

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Well, all honor to Mystery or Style i think for cellphone cheatsheat thing, got it from one of those guys. But works like a charm.

you didn't have to follow her to the car if the owner of the vehicle was already with her. That was weird. You win some, and lose some.

i kinda knew that it was a mistake following her to the car...i think i`ll just pass that gal as an option and move on...

THANX GUYS...really appreciate it

Slai, That's brilliant!

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this is a sticky situation..

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