Yo,

So my current target is in my class, we're both 17, she's extremely hot, great personality and basically she is just my type.

And obviously, she has a boyfriend...

She's a virgin by the way, and I don't plan on just losing mine and leave. I'd like to have a real relationship with this girl. And she has parents that don't like going with their time, she hasn't even been given a damn phone. (Isn't allowed to have a boyfriend either.)

Normally I wouldn't have a problem with stealing girlfriends, but her boyfriend is a little too much in our range when I want to talk to her, since he's in my class too.

At first I just thought I'd leave her since I didn't want too much of a commotion, but I still started to like her more even though I was talking to her just all other girls. (Soft game the hot ones.)

In the end I noticed that asshole doesn't make her happy at all, she gets mad at him every day, they barely talk to each other but hug a lot, and she rarely smiles when she is with just him, but just stares at the ground. (Sometimes I go to cheer her up a bit, you know, bonus points.)

So I started gaming her a lot more than I used to, and she has been taking it very well. Our hugs get a lot more frequent and intimate, we talk about more interesting subjects, and she seeks my attention a lot more.

I think I have an advantage since she loves to do random, exciting things and definitely loves to flirt.

Her bf does talk to a lot of girls and loves to brag about it, so she gets mad when he gets jealous over small things, so I could steadily increase the amount of things I could do with her until she almost stole my gum from my mouth, that's when I put my finger on her lips, as in that she can dance on the line as much as she wants, but that would be crossing it for him.

Later she and her bf were hanging out near a tree, they were sitting behind each other with the girl in front, and I was standing in front of the girl. We were talking as she was getting perma-hugged by her bf, who wasn't even listening, so I was busy talking to her about multiple stuff, and laughing about how scared her bf was to fondle her boobs, after a while someone else came to talk to me. (I'm class rep. and this class wants a shitload of attention.)

So I was talking to the other girl and I was that my target was suffering from severe boredom, she was just staring at the ground while still perma-hugged and I heard a lot of sighing from that direction. She was staring at me with those puppy-dog eyes like she was begging me to come back, but I had shit to do, so left.

That was yesterday, I can see that she would want to date me, but I don't want to have this whole drama. (Which I could understand.)

It's not like some fight will break out, but without a good reason this won't go down to easily. So I want to know how I could effectively give that final yank that will get her to me, but still doesn't make me look bad for stealing.

I don't want to use the strawhead technique as I already know she isn't happy and she would just look at me questioning if I was serious.

I am relatively new to pickup, but I think I'm learning pretty fast, but this really is something I'm stuck with, so what would you pro's do in this situation. (Apart from the 'don't do it' and 'FUCK HER' reply's.)

P.s. If you see anything you would have done better or differently, feel free to add that too.

Thnx guys,

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I don't really have a good answer, but just be sure you aren't getting friendzoned. Getting called for hugs and when she's bored can very easily mean you're being friendzoned.

I'm pretty damn sure I'm not getting friendzoned, I did fuck up a little today, I was chewing gum today while talking to her again, and her bf was boring himself from a distance, and after she got closer as I kept her interested, she suddenly moved in and started to close her eyes.

I panicked a little as her boyfriend was 5 meters away behind her, so I just moved in too, but tilted my head, as if she just wanted to hug, and then quickly gave her a pinch as if to say she should snap out of it.

She then asked why I smell so sweet (probably the gum.), I didn't respond and left not much later afterwards.

This could easily look as a rejection, which I wasn't, I will have to move fast though, since I can't hear anything from her until monday, so I'll try to get everything sorted out on that day, but still not exactly sure how.

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Good job getting a lot of IOI and building rapport/intimacy with her. Should be pretty proud that you can do that with a girl who has a boyfriend even if he is a asshole to her since many girls don't want to be portraited as a cheater.

If you don't want to do one time thing with her, you gotta get rid of that boyfriend. I really can't help you how (subliminal, joke around about breaking up with her boyfriend; check out tongue and cheek techniques by gambler, in the very bottom of the page on this site under "PUA Forum".)

Just remember that you are not her psychiatrist and show her that you are a potential boyfriend material. Never tell her you like her but keep her guessing "does he like me" by doing a bit of romantic stuff that's not too obvious. Girls would give hugs to her regular friends and give the "rescue me" but maybe not the puppy eyes to her friends. Don't let her allow to receive all the love a human person needs from you and the physical love from him. (learn from my mistake). Get more better IOIs before moving in.

Touch the back of her hand with the back of hers but make it seem unintentional. She moves away = bad, she keeps her hand there = shes ready.

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Thanks, that were some great tips, I don't know if I need to try that back of the hand thing though, she unconsciously strangled my fingers a week ago when we were talking, I was simply looking for a high five, but she kept holding and started strangling even though her bf was right next to her. (Not looking.) She noticed what she actually did just 5 seconds after doing it, though. And she constantly grabs my hand when we're walking around school.

Do I still need to do that test?

Either way, thnx.

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