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Well, I have a gf now, we have been friends for some time, and then she and I have decided to give it a try, I am quite happy in this relationship, but she sometimes is not. I have no clue what is going on, one time, when she is normal/good mood we are good together, I am happy and she is too. But when she is in a bad mood, she is questioning our relationship, and this always hits me like a hammer, afterwards I feel like crap and I don't know what to do...., Should I talk about it? Is it because of her bad mood? Is this normal? Please guys help me out here. Thx
How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being.
These are just minor shit tests, women do it all the time! Shit tests are essentially a form of testing for fitness, or strength. Shit tests come in many variations, from a woman’s asking you to hold her purse at the mall, to storming out during a fight, or even an ultimatum about the relationship. Most times they don't even realize they are doing it. They just wired that way.
Handling them is fairly straight forward.
Display a low tolerance for unattractive behaviors. Reward only desirable behaviors.
If you fail a crucial shit test, you won’t get a second chance. If a demand strikes you as unreasonable or gratuitous, trust your instincts. They ultimately will like you better for it.
CHAT