ME

Fantastic pm me your number so we can set a date for just the standard weekend of mind blowing sex, cause I can make happen Sian also I'm tired of you raping me with your eyes it's creepy lol

HER

I so not rape you with my eyes lmao, just casual no strings attached, sorted spaniel... Lol x

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ME

You should just be honest lol it can't be no strings you at least have to buy me a coffee if I am giving you a night passion sex that's the deal lol also I'm not joking I always thought you had such a sexy body! I would love more than to spend a night making you orgasm over and over!

HER

Your not joking... I can't take you serious spaniel xx I won't be able to tell if you were serious or not x
All because I called you sexy spaniel x

ME

Well how about we just meet for a drink if there is sexual tension then I will seduce you and just have fun all night, only If we get along that is we may hate each other lol

HER

Lol I never thought you thought of me like that x look at you you dark horse xx I'm flattered x and you make me laugh that's a bonus x

Me
It would only cause drama to have a sexual relationship with someone who I worked with. There is nothing dark about telling someone they are sexy lol see it's win win

Her

Lol x how did you know me and 'Boyfirend' are over now?


ME

Just heard it on the grape vine sorry about that by the way but you know what they say the best way to get over a break up ;-p


Her

Lol I didn't know it was public, that's all, I'm good thanks and I don't think I can do anything like that for a while need to get my confidence back x

Me

The way I see you could just mope around and waste more time or start living in the moment and have a blast You kidding you should have all the confidence you need you are smoking hot! There is nothing better for a confidence boost than a night of crazy sex you should listen to me i am a medic I know this stuff !

Her

Lol thank you for the compliment I don't usually get them and u have seen me at my worst x and I just can't get into bed with anyone just like that It will feel weird if u know what I mean x

ME

Your welcome but don't waste to much time I'm a man in high demand Sian. When you feel the urge to throw caution to the wind! You know where I am!

Her

Lmao thank you I will keep you in mind, and thank you for your kind support in offering your services

She has split her with her long term and is fucking hot!!! She basically said jokingly for my birthday happy birthday you sexy bastard why havent you asked me out yet! so I started that you see above.


Any ideas ??/

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looked good! but i dunno about calling her smoking hot in my experience(which is limited) thats a no-no

Thanks for the reply and advise

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ME

Your welcome but don't waste to much time I'm a man in high demand Sian. When you feel the urge to throw caution to the wind! You know where I am!


You gave up way too easily here Man. She wasn't saying No - She was saying that she wouldnt feel right. Besides it's social conditioning for her not to want to jump in straight away. Despite what she feels.

You could have ignored her comment completely - carried on with painting vivid imagery of how little in life gives us a buzz any more and to think about the butterflies of sexual anticipation in her stomach as she approached your place.

Maybe picked up the imagery of what might have happend.... you walk through the door, I put my finger to your lips, take your hair firmly in my hand and kiss you roughly....

Don't give up easily man! Paint vivid imagery to get her to associate into it and feel what it will be like. Don't use logic.

Oh yes - Don't give up too easily!

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Well she was interested but I think you were being a little too funny and she was taking everything you said as a joke. Unless you already have a flirty relationship in real life at work I think you pushed a little too hard on the sexual stuff.

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I feel you were doing quite well up 'til here:
This leaves room for any number of creative responses, e.g. "Who said anything about a bed? I have a perfectly functional kitchen table."
Instead, you make yourself too available to her (she thinks you are "offering your services", like you're a gigolo or something). That, plus you reinforce her current frame of sex as a rational decision. I think your best course forward is to arrange to meet up "for coffee", "to watch a movie", or whatever it is you do. Once you are one-on-one you'll have to successfully recreate the sexual tension of your texts in real life by escalating physical contact.

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One of the most useful things you will ever learn about body language.