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PostPosted: Sun Nov 18, 2012 8:19 pm 
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As a young entrepreneur I've noticed that i need contacts to help expand further and get to places i want to. I've noticed a couple of my friends grow and get more contacts to give them benefits such as VIP club entrances, back stage passes to concerts/gigs etc. This is usually through family and such but unfortunately i don't have family to do this sort of stuff for me.

Contacts can usually help you get all sorts of things, better job, free mcdonalds, higher value, more money, vip tickets etc. I want to know how i can gain contacts/connections to help myself. How can i do this?

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PostPosted: Sun Nov 18, 2012 11:40 pm 
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Networking is all about putting yourself out there - often it's also about having the balls to ask. I know a friend who didn't do journalism as a degree, but did some cheap work at a local paper, but he put pretty much the same amount of effort into his networking as he did the work at the paper - asked for invites to various functions (he was doing sports journalism around motorsports), said he was a young journalist working for x Paper and wanted to get an interview, and they said he could come. He also got a lot that didn't, but so what? He still got a lot more than most people his age - and a hell of a lot more than the people who didn't want to ask for fear of offending.

Whether it's a business setting or social, the more people you know, the more doors might open for you. You don't need to be best friends with these people, just get to know them, make a connection, get your name remembered. Then if you think they can help you out with something, ask them.


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PostPosted: Mon Nov 19, 2012 12:55 pm 
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Join a meetup group. That's a great way to get contacts. The other way is by opening sets, even all MALE ones. Whether you want to pick up a sex partner, or just pick up a new friend, the game is almost exactly the same: Open, build rapport, n-close.

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PostPosted: Thu Nov 22, 2012 1:18 am 
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You gotta learn how to carry out conversations. According to Carlos Xuma's program called "Alpha Man conversation", Every single conversation a person has with anyone about anything is actually attempting to persuade the other person. wether it's convincing him to go to a party, giving him a reason to talk to you or talking about the weather, that person is trying to persuade you.

And another thing: If you're not persuading them, they're persuading you. But that doesn't mean you should try to domineer the conversation. Actually if you listen more than talk, it's gonna work in your favor.

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PostPosted: Sat Nov 24, 2012 8:05 am 
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Print out 250 business cards. Dress and groom yourself. Go out anywhere and everywhere. Seriously.
This is the exact thing my dad made me do when I was 16. I had to come home with ways to contact at least 10 people everyday, as well as 5 facts about them that I could only know through conversation.
Makes you really consider how to influence somebody, esp. when you're a kid not wanting to disappoint your dad.

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PostPosted: Wed Nov 28, 2012 12:27 pm 
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Your dad sounds awesome. All mine ever did was smoke pot and drink and tell me that eventually I'd figure out how the world works.

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if you go through life always try to be a weasel who fakes being friendly to everyone hoping he will get something out of it later it takes a lot more effort but there's no guarantee you'll get those VIP tickets you may end up just waste your time for nothing


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