I am very curious to see people's responses. I am a very direct person and will admit that my social life is fine, I am a confident person, and I am a successful person. The only reason I am really pursuing this type of lifestyle is because my sex life is BORING. How many of you are willing to say the same? (And yes I expect a lot of you to disagree and tell me how wrong I am, how I don't understand the whole PUA community etc)

Oh and on a side note this had a HUGE effect on how I view the community. Style in his new book admits to sleeping with an 18 year old girl in the one part. Is it really moral for a 35+ year old man to sleep with a girl who probably just got out of high school?

young legal girls are the fountains of youth for the older guys, its only immoral if either sides makes it immoral. what do you think she is thinking about while sleeping with him, not that he is some creepy old guy, but he is probably a better guy than half the people she just went to school with.

anyway, the reason im in this is to better myself in all aspects of life. yes girls and sex has alot to do with it, but it can be applied to so much more and once you learn all these skills and put it together with everything else you experience in life, you are going to be successful in alot of different things you encounter

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A lifestyle is a terrible thing to waste.
What I say when I see her is what I'll say.

Well if I remember correctly that wasn't the case. He slept with her and she fell for him and he disappeared to cover his ass. That really shows moral fiber and the ability to "leaver her off better than when he found her"

I won't disagree with you at all. The PUA community is full of all sorts of men. There are men that are here to increase their confidence and social abilities to the point where they can actually get off of World of Warcraft and go out and talk to people without having panic attacks and there are guys that are here to increase their power in the board room. I think that PUA has definitely increased a lot of guy's sexual lives, so I don't think that it's silly at all. David Shade (a guy who's stuff you should really read because of your reason for being here) bases all of his work on sexuality. He doesn't really teach how to pick up girls, but the stuff he teaches has helped me do it much much better and same as a lot of other guys.

As far as morals go, again you have a lot of different guys, you're gonna get a lot of different moral viewpoints. Personally I'm almost 23 and I'm still trying to have sex with a 17 year old, before it gets to be too creepy for me. Some people probabaly think that that's already creepy, but who the fuck cares, I've got my morals and they can have theirs. It's an attitude that you really need to adopt in order to be a great PUA; you are your own person, you have your own morals and that is what matters, because everyone else has their own morals as well and respecting that will take you far.

If you can't think like that, well you're gonna have some trouble, because everyone has their own quirks and you're gonna run into people who you find questionable, but they have the best knowledge, they just kinda went crazy from it all. Take my advice and learn everything you can, from everyone you can and then use the knowledge according to your own set of morals. Knowledge is like a car, the car isn't evil, but if you decide to use it to kill people it can be, or it could be good and used to get you to work in the morning. Same thing with NLP and any PUA knowledge/skills/tactics, they are merely tools and it is how you use them that define what kind of man you are.

Myself, I am here to have the ability to be able to make the girls that I meet and really like, like me back as much. I don't intend to go out every night and fuck as many women as humanly possible, but I have no problems with promiscuity Hell I used to be a porn star for about half a year, but what I'm after here, is to be able to get "the one", when I see her. Also, an unboring sex life is a must.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

All around self betterment

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"Be the same, only better."

Definitely personal betterment. You have to change who you are a bit. You start to lift, diet, read and become more social. This makes your efforts a bit easier. You become healthier, more intelligent, and meet new friends. I'm not necessarily looking for a wife here, I'm looking to meet more girls, and maybe some new guy friends (is it me or is it harder to get new male friends as you get older?). Acting slick gives that nifty little ego boost that keeps you smiling throughout the day.

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