well i think alot of young PUA's come across this situation, for instance, im 16 but the girl im dating is 14... she is a virgin but has done SOME sexual things like handjob and been poked, but just with one guy... i find out about this and she told me that she wouldnt do anything like this again unless she was in a LTR. when i throw a shit test about sex then she says she would do it with me but not yet, and i guess this means that she wants comfort and trust... my question is, should i ignore the legal age for sex even if she wants it? we both like each other alot and i must admit im willing to make her the one if she gave it up to me. should i worry about the law and the 2 year age difference. if not, what can i do to build attraction and comfort, in order to move in?

If you want to break the law it's up to you. I've been there in that situation, did it, luckily enough didn't get caught. Here is the question you need to be asking yourself, "If her parents find out will they press charges?"

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I agree with jsmooth... If you want to break the law thats your choice. But I cannot condone it.

Press charges? her parents are police officers, so if caught im buggerd... but they dont have to find out...

I would avoid sleeping with a 14 year old, thats just me. I am young too, i'm 19, go for older women. I have never actually hooked up with a girl that is more than a year younger than me, thats just me. A fourteen year old girl isn't ready to start fucking period, when I was fourteen I was still worried about kissing girls. Is it easy to have sex with younger girls? Yes. Why? 90% of the time its because they are naive and/or searching for validation from an older guy. If you sleep with a girl that young I can almost guarantee you that it will not benefit either of you.

your 16 she's 14 your both minors
not sure what state you live in where thats against the law

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i like her. im just gonna see where this goes... if it blows up in my face then fair enough... but what if i was considering this as a relationship and not PUA? im not wanting to hurt her... i want to take her virginity so i can have her in that obsessed state.

Well right there that is a selfish want, you are thinking about how you want things and not about how it affects her. I would reevaluate how you view women. Here is what will happen. She will become obsessed you will get lots of sex and be happy for a little. Then you will become disenchanted with the relationship because you will realize that relationships are a shit load of work and very serious. So you will move on, she won't be ready, and add your own happy ending here _____.

What it comes down to is this. Is getting laid more important to you than someone else's emotional and psychological well-being. Remember she is young and if you fuck her up, every guy she dates after you will end up paying for what you did.

I wouldnt. Shes only 14. Her boobs arent even fully developed yet. Plus, when you are school aged, it reflects poorly to bang someone 3-3 grades under you. Also, if her dad finds out, you are going to get the living shit kicked out of you.

It seems like you are just asking for (valuble) oppinions and then disregarding them. 90% of the guys on her are older and more mature than you. LISTEN to them. And yes, her parents can press charges and get you (or your parents) locked up. Save yourself a lot of trouble and move on.


Listen to justright. Are you really willing to tear a girl up emotionally, just to get laid? It sounds really selfish when you say "I want to take her virginity and her to become obssesed with me". Thats just retarded. You DO NOT want an obssesive girl. It is a nightmare.

I would do it.

Explanation? He could get himself into some deep shit.

That would be legal where i live.

This is the first logical thing I've heard you say and I agree. I don't have any clue where, or why it would be illegal for people only 2 years apart to be together. It makes zero sense, because there are lots of kids that fail school and they are going to be interacting with people 2 years younger and it would be stupid to say that they can't have relationships with them.

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guys. im not wanting her obsessed so i can take advantage... i simply want her... im not bothered about sex really.

i have 2 options.. end it.. or stick in there and just wait for it to happen. if i dont take her virginity then some loser most likely will. and im a good guy, not one to mess her about.

Fucking a 14 yr old is like child porn, its like wtf? Young girls arent hot, they are juvenile, they are irritating, and like all kids should get corraled and sent away from general society.

Hit a 17 or 18 yr old, more experienced, legal, and more than likely hotter. Your going down a dangerous road man, and it seems as if you dont need aditional psychological impairement.

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