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You know what? You do what works for you. There's your validation.

Most puas and aspiring puas know the pros and cons of alcohol consumption while night gaming. Proceed with caution and do what works for you.

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As a college student, I drink a lot.
As a drunk, I game a lot.
As a drunk college guy gaming, I get girls a lot.

Alcohol is your friend unless your a pussy. If she happens to be drinking you can take your final goal of getting laid and speed it up into a one night thing without having to spend a dime on her.


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Alcohol only helps if you're around girls who already want to have sex with you. Or if you're game is bad, then the numbness to rejection might serve you better than your only slightly better sober game.

Its benefits are narrow.


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I think it can also help you stay in a set longer because you either don't realize that you got blown out, or don't care. But I've seen this go bad just as much as it works to the guy's advantage.

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i think people have problems handling their alcohol because i have literally never had anything go bad unless im the one to do it.
maybe my beer goggles make me go for less than im capable of so those girls will never turn me down. just thought of this so ill go try some 9s and 10s instead of 7s and 8s and see if anything changes haha


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I like moderation. I think people who are constantly judging drinkers are annoying, and I no longer friends with drunks who puke on my shoes when I lead them out of a bar to avoid fights they started.

Here's how I look at it:

1. I am afraid to talk to these girls, I want to get drunk so if it goes bad I can say alcohol made me crazy = bad

2. I'm at a bar, I'm fuckin drinking, and if girls like the game I throw after that, well good for me = good.

3. Today sucked, I want to black out in the hope something good happens = bad.

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The problem with gaming drunk is most are a complete narcissist most of the time. You are completely out of touch with the other person, which is the problem. Most of the time in order to have a high consistency with women you need to read and react to her. If you are focused on yourself you aren't doing that.

Basically you aren't realizing you just brought up a horrible topic or that you are the drunk idiot that is being laughed at but not making her laugh(with your jokes). If you think that you are better off staying in a conversation by being a drunk asshole you are sorely mistaken, yes you may seem like you are doing a good job this way but the truth is you aren't remembering it correctly a lot of times.

It's not that I'm against drinking, I love to do it. When I go out to drink and have a good time I'm not in search of a lady, sometimes it happens and sometimes it doesn't. Too many times I embarrassed myself by thinking I was smoother then I was, the truth is I'm very smooth with a good buzz, or sober, but I'm not so charismatic or charming hammered. What I've realized is you are more comfortable doing things drunk but that isn't necessarily a good thing.

I say game sober until it is instinctual then go out drinking but the choice is simple really, get drunk and gaming women doesn't teach you many lessons. The goal is to get better and you aren't learning anything if you are drunk with a "skewed memory".

I quit drinking for YEARS and so I was the sober driver of my friends for a minute, what I noticed is while my friends thought they had more skills sober they didn't. In fact the only thing they had is a false confidence aka ARROGANCE. Now I'm not just talking about skills with women but also with pool, dancing, cards, etc. The truth is often times when we are having a great time we paint a picture of ourselves on a more attractive level than we were. We think we are cooler or whatever, the truth is we are having a great time and thus unaware anyone else is having a bad time. People who make others feel good are thought of as slimmer, better looking, and more athletic, so we think we were more attractive simply because we felt good.

I am not against drinking I have about a beer a day for health purposes (usually not more than 2) and every once in a while I like to go out and get SMASHED but I also don't go out looking to get laid when I do this.

You can get laid drinking, you can get laid for several reasons, but the goal is to get good with women, not get shit canned. Drinking is fun but which fun do you want? Sex regularly or be drunk tonight with an outside shot of finding and equally drunk woman who wants to bang you?

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PostPosted: Sat Nov 24, 2012 6:02 pm 
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i saw the last post was 10 days ago, hope thats not too long ago for me to post
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Sober me = Focused and on point.
Tipsy me = Life is awesome, I love you all.
Extremely drunk me = Total asshole.
yup thats me too.
no one does anything better drunk -drive, sports, mcats, or game.
fake courage and self worth, like vic said arrogance.

i think buzzed is ok, but your really close to the line.
my problem is i got crazy bad anxiety. at the gas station the other day a cute girl was ringing up my coffee and i wanted to say something but i was so nervous i started shaking. i had to lay my money on the counter and count it out like a 6 year old i got so nervous. so i drink often jus to have normal conversation. hopefully more talking and interactions with girls will give me more confidence and i can avoid too much alcohol.

i also believe day game is real game, not bars/clubs -ever, period. i dont care what you do at a bar/club/party where it is a social place with the acceptance of meeting people. to me, real game is seeing a HB going about her normal day in a non social environment, approaching, and closing. jus my opinion.


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Yo guys im not asking for advice

I know sober game is better and that alcohol is liquid confidence.

I was just wondering if anybody else has had similar experiences where 1) sober you does in fact get pussy and pick up chicks but 2) drunk you does in fact get more pussy and picks up many more chicks
i do a lot of college game. since drinking in this field is almost inevitable in most of these situations what i've found is that getting

Drunk is only good for escalating fast from opening on frequent multiple targets. so really the only situation where i would drunk game is a college party or club with dance game and about 100-200 people with many cold approaches. since there are little and even sometimes no words involved you can use the alcohol for a close or blow type of method based off their initial interest. sort of like "apocalypse opening" without DLVing social proof.

tipsy can be ok to get more into a "social mode" nice social flow and confidence but your ability to process certain things can be slightly hindered.

but sober will always prove to be the best option so you can actually properly assess your situation your reactions from your sets. you need to think to properly use your techs to your advantage and large amounts of alcohol won't let you do that. even though you'll lack that "liquid confidence" your higher sense of consciousness will prove better if your game is actually tight.

personally when i night game ill be about 2-4 drinks in (which isn't a lot for me since i have a high tolerance) just to enjoy it and get into a nice little social drinking mode.

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Why not just get drunk all the time (haha)?

Maybe you're most attractive when you're drunk.

Let's admit that we do a lot of strange thing when we're drunk.

Mostly mindless and crazy things that we only realize when we're not drunk anymore.

Keep drinking, playing and flirting but never get into trouble.


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"Keep drinking" is always a bad suggestion, whether it's short term or long term. Don't listen to that advice.

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just a drunk experience to deter some of you from getting too drunk. Perhaps it was because i was drunk AND high, but this hot chick asked for my number and i accidentally gave her the wrong one. As in, i messed up the first 3 digits. I looked like a total fucker when i saw her the next night.

The only reason i recovered it was because i was relatively sober.

Lesson learned.


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