Hey lads

Been chatting up this chick on Facebook for probally 4 nights off and on.

Last night I asked her out to dinner before this big party in town . I got the reply of "

thank you for the offer but i have to work Saturday and pack as i am going to Fiji. But you never know I might just show up I useally do spontaneous things "


After this a made a joke and she loved it but i think because of this circumstance I want to take awkwardness out of the first real meeting . Any ideas lads here to rainstorm

You shouldnt make jokes when she flakes you, she wont take you serious anymore I think.
Also, usually when people give 2 excuses they are lying (read that somewhere).
I'd move on to the next chick.

I see your points cheers for taking the time to post . Hmmm okay so lets say I'm from a small town and choice is useally only thing that we la k here on he tablelands North Queensland , but what we do get is aloft of backpackers mostly hotties I'm really trying to approve my game but stuck words need help or is thier some natural game books I can read teach my self to more communitive with people.

Is she going to Fiji forever or for a couple weeks?
She might be starting a new life there and not want to get involved in place she's moving from.
Or she's busy packing.
Dinner is A LOT for a 1st hangout. Don't go trying to buy her love/interest, especially when you never met. Buy her a beer then if you like her tell her it's her turn to buy one.

I wouldn't say her NO was a definite "I'm not interested" type of No.

Just take her to go DO something, meet her at the bar then see if you like her.

Good initiative in chatting and moving forward, keep it up. And ask out a couple more, don't be sitting around waiting for Fiji chick to come back. You should have a couple meetups under your belt by the time she comes back.

Is there some cool job where you can get in front of all these hottie hikers? Bartender, Tour guide?