Ok. So I met this girl named aundrea about a week ago in school. We really clicked. Anyway she put a ding in my car yesterday and I got really mad at her. And told her to go home.

I called her, and she didn't answer. Then she called back when she got home and asked me what my problem was bla bla bla. Anyway I told her over the phone that she was too much drama and that I'm tired of her and that I was done with her. She said don't talk to me anymore and hung up.

About an hour or 2 later I texted her trying to make up, and she told me that I made her cry over the phone and that she's leaving me cuz she never wants to go through that pain again. So I texted her saying that I was sorry and that I won't hurt her anymore. But I texted her like ten times. Finally she texts back telling me to go away and leave her alone like I said I was going to. So I keep texting her telling her that I like her a lot and don't wanna end it now. And again I texted her like ten times with no reply. Finally I got a little upset and said "I can't believe I fucked this up please come back I promise I'll never hurt u again." then after that I said " I really like u and I wanna keep u but if u wanna move on I understand and accept that".

Now it's the next day and she still hasn't tried to contact me or anything. What do I do? Is there anything I can do? Do you think my neediness scared her away? Thanks guys.[/list]

Reading that made me cringe man. The neediness was just pathetic. Do not text her again. I repeat, DO NOT TEXT HER AGAIN. In a week or 2 she will likely text you. Do not answer it. Let her believe you are moving on to new girls and better things (which you should be). If you text her again you will kill any chance of getting her back. In 3 or 4 weeks, give her a text and see what happens. You need to disappear right now

How did she put a ding in your car? Like, you let her drive it or she door-dinged another car?

Regardless, your behavior right now is turning her off for sure. A woman's imagination can be your best weapon. Let her wonder what you're up to.

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I have to say, I feel for you man. You obviously had a lot of feelings for her since you sent her 20+ texts messages. But I would just stop. Stop texting her, don't call her, don't contact her. Its best to stay away from her, at least for now. You're only scaring her away!

Put yourself in her shoes, let's say a girl hurts you, breaks your heart, or makes you feel like you can't trust her anymore. Then she all of a sudden changes and says "babe I miss you! Please come back..." not only is that needy, but it shows she isn't consistent. Now imagine that text times 20! Annoying right? And (imo) would make you feel greater, she would know she has you in a choke hold, and feel like you are just an idiot who feeds from your her attention.

I would just back off. You already said you were anyway. So if you keep trying you would only show you DON'T understand, and you DON'T respect her decision. Move on, find other girls, theres got to be one just as good if not better.